I have to back up trackislife here because although he is an asshole, she's known him longer and feels comfortable and safe around him chase sounds like some crazy douchebag who would get her into the wrong things overall I would date neither of them
-family doesn't like him. There is usually a reason for this, (most) family just want what is best for you. So if they really dislike them, its probably because they see him for his douchebaggery that she doesn't see because she <3's him.
-trust issues. Now I could be wrong, but most of the time when somebody says this it means one thing. The other person cheated on them.
-no job. Meh, kinda ok with this in high school.
-asshole. Self explanatory.
She shouldn't be with either of the guys they both sound like destructive relationships.
Now, I'm not the expert on relationships (as you can probably assume from my screen name) but I agree guest. She doesn't sound happy to be with either, isn't that just about the most important thing in a romantic relationship (or any strong emotional relationship) you should like the person, trust them, be happy when your with them, enjoy spending time with them. I don't know a lot about romance but happiness and actually liking the person seems like a big deal.
I used to give each pro and con a rating from one to ten on how big of a deal it was and then add up the numbers at the end because some pros/ cons were better/ worse than other cons/pros
reading this, she probably needs to change the type of people she's hanging out with, one is an asshole, the other is cocky, neither has a job. As for being whipped, do you really want someone that's going to be like that?
-trust issues. Now I could be wrong, but most of the time when somebody says this it means one thing. The other person cheated on them.
-no job. Meh, kinda ok with this in high school.
-asshole. Self explanatory.
She shouldn't be with either of the guys they both sound like destructive relationships.