Very good point, but sometimes the heart wants what it can't have. And even though you are important to someone, you might
not be important to the one who's important to you, as awful as that sounds.
I know we all want to be important to that one specific person and sometimes that just isn't going to happen. That's life, and it's not always perfect. I just want you to know that you are important to people you might not even really consider. Yes, I get that it sucks not being important to that one specific person. I just want to make sure people acknowledge that they are worth something to so many other people, rather than dwell on the fact that they will never be good enough for one.
YES YOU GET IT. I just want him to hug me and i want to run away with him, I want him to smile at me the way i pictured it. But sometimes, things just don't work out, and he runs off with someone who was braver than you.
It feels like your heart was metaphorically ripped out of your ribcages, then frozen, then tossed over their shoulder onto the ground in front of your feet, in a puddle.
Story of my life. Through my 16 years of existence ALL of my friends left me over a day. The reasons were different: I wasn't popular, I wasn't pretty, I wasn't smart, I wasn't Italian (I come from Italy). 3 friends of mine came to me and said "we are not going to be with you anymore, you are awkward and unpopular". We were friends for 5 years. I'm still waiting that somebody I care of doesn't beak my heart.
I once had a best friend, she called me her best friend, I called her my best friend we did sleepovers, the whole shebang. But at school, she was always with these kids who thought I was an idiot, and she was always talking really loudly with them. This was back when I was still shy and polite, but I'd keep trying to talk to her until I had to shout her name above all the rest and then they'd say, "Jeez, don't shout." I felt our friendship slipping, and I kept trying to talk to her, I held on so much that I actually rejected the friendship of others. Eventually, I got sick of it. I basically cried a bunch over losing her friendship, because I cared so much and she didn't seem to. Eventually I cut my losses. The sadness turned to anger, and I stayed angry at her for around three months. Three FULL I am not kidding, months, in which I glared at her every time she looked at me and never spoke to her. She didn't notice, until three months later.
She later told me that she'd noticed it slipping too, and I asked her about why she hadn't done anything. She said she'd actually been really cut up about it, but she wasn't a "doing things" person. I was pretty disgusted, and since then I have surrounded myself with people who I know appreciate me as a person.
I had a friendship that started slipping too this one guy was one of the greatest friends I had ever had and then slowly he started talking to me less and less, until he just stopped altogether. He wouldn't talk or text me and never made eye contact with me in the hallways in school. Eventually I had to find out from another friend that he stopped talking to me because I was to quiet and antisocial and never did anything and it was a "turnoff" for him
And that lovely moment when you think you're not important to someone, but you are.
not be important to the one who's important to you, as awful as that sounds.