jesus, why is he asking nearly every day.. just let her come onto you sex addict smh
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· 10 years ago
Have any of you guys read the article? She basically does all the housework for him and also works. No wonder she's too tired for sex. He also never actually talked to her about this. The spreadsheet was sent to her work email just as she was leaving for a 10 day business trip. Before you jump to conclusions about frigid women, consider the circumstances.
Yea but everyday? I'm pretty sure he understands her preferences by now, she obviously doesn't wanna fuck all the time. If he wanted sex every day he should have married someone who wanted to as well.
Whereas I understand your view that he should've realized by now that she doesn't wanna have sex every day, I disagree with the last sentence. You don't marry someone based on how much they do or do not want sex. You (obviously) marry someone out of love, and I don't think there's anything wrong with wanting to make love to him or her - even daily
That's bs. I'm a women, no way I would treat the man I love, my husband like this. I get that she gets tired, etc, we all do, but looking at this should make her see how she is. my husband showers with me when I'm tired, it's important to nurture intimacy in a relationship. Sex is important. And as"horny" as I usually am, I know it's different for men. No sex and rejection makes them miserable, cranky, a 15 min quickie and he's a new man ;) I love it
I agree with you. I made a comment above that got down voted I'm guessing because I didn't feel like explaining it in length but you have done a good job in explaining the thoughts behind my comment.
And?? Its her decision pls stop shaming her for it.
Its like if a girl says no she is pointed out and if she says yes she is a slut
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· 10 years ago
You beat me to it. Nobody owes anyone sex, not even a husband or wife. Granted, most healthy relationships will have sex, but passive aggressive spreadsheets are not the way to resolve issues.
Get a grip! We aren't "shaming" her, it's her body, she can choose, of course. and she's married! Duh, not a slut. Her decision to get married too. Ever been in a relationship where your partner acts like they aren't attracted to you? Doesn't want to be intimate? She has taken her husband for granted. It happens. not intentionally, I'm sure. So, he wanted her to see it. I think it's funny, I bet she thought it was a lil funny too, like damn, lol, I really have been blowing off sex :)
If you think that having sex is the only way to show attraction in a relationship, there's going to be something wrong with your relationships. In the article she works, does all the cooking and cleaning for him, and then because she's too tired or needs to relax, 'she has taken her husband for granted'. If someone doesn't want sex, then they shouldn't even need to say why. They should just say no and the other person should just accept it. In my opinion, this guy would have more success if he'd let up and give her a break from asking every. bloody. day. Because he's showing he's listening and actually cares about her livelihood too.
He's not asking for "sex every day,," he's asking every day for sex because the answer most days is "No." He presented this in a pretty bad way, but I get that he's frustrated and trying to shock her into the realization that he's attracted to her. Pissed off though she is, she'd be angrier if at some point he just decided not to let himself be attracted to her any more.
Also, as big a jerk as he is for making the spreadsheet and presenting it to her in that way, it's still less obnoxious than making that spreadsheet and the issue public on the internet.
Its like if a girl says no she is pointed out and if she says yes she is a slut
Also, as big a jerk as he is for making the spreadsheet and presenting it to her in that way, it's still less obnoxious than making that spreadsheet and the issue public on the internet.