Are you crazy?? I mean the clerk LITERALLY said "Here, let me give you my number." What is she supposed to say? "I want you to fuck me?" She is at her workplace, she has to be a little subtel at least, and also she might want to keep her dignity in case he turns her down...
If your mind is set on one thing and only one thing you won't notice it. He was set on getting his research done and having proof of doing so. In doing that he missed her flirting with him. I would've done the same thing. Men typically have one track minds. We pay attention to one thing with detail and lose sight of everything else.
I'm a dude. And whatever I'm doing, if I'm chatting with a cute girl I just met (especially if we hit it off decently), i WILL have my mind on the flirting.
If you dismiss someone in the way he did then they'll feel like you really weren't interested but running back to them and proclaiming you understood the subtle hint now just means to them that you're slow af. It wouldn't work how you think it would.
You are assuming all ppl would be turned off by his honesty. In my opinon, he respected hinsef enough to go back and say, "I was confused bt your flirtatious geastures. I have enough sense to see my mistake. I was focused on my career, instead of meeting someone new that I was attracted to. so, heres my number....put in a good wordfor me? Call me if you want. " :)
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