Aye. Happened too many times and yet somehow I still don't flip my shit everytime like some of the *cough cough* male humans tend to do if 'friendzoned'.
This doesn't apply to everyone, but I feel like people just assume they have been friendzoned because the guy/girl treats them like a friend or says something like "you're such a great friend." Unless you admit to that guy/girl about your feelings and they say they don't feel the same, you are not friendzoned. Some people just want friendship, some are oblivious to your feelings, some are too shy to make the first move or accidentally reveal their feelings, etc. You never know until you say something.
so a guy says he's been friendzoned and the response is: "there is no such thing as the friendzone" and he is labelled a dick. but girls can be friendzoned? that is just confusing
So I was friendzoned by a guy like five million times, he'd send me these really long text messages proclaiming how much he loved our friendship. I didn't like like him so I was okay with it, thought slightly strange and annoying, I didn't want to be anything more than friends. Then he all of the sudden gets super clingy and handsy and won't stop talking about how he'd want to kiss me all the time if we were dating. And as I said, I didn't like him and he SAID he didn't like me. So I pulled away a bit, and he got super pissed at me. He literally pouted and got mad at me saying he was just testing stuff out and thought I liked him too. He got that from the fact that I slow danced with him at a dance. Big Deal. Anyways sorry for the long post, we just have the same group of friends and if I talk to them about it, then they'll just tell him and he'll go around telling people lies about me {he told everyone I'm depressed} and my mom's on his side...so yeah. it sucks
AYEEEE!!!!
ALL the guys I've liked friendzoned me. :c