I'm 18 too, and i have not, but only because of the fear of other people's judgement, I have to wait, even when i have found the right one, that's nonsense. And i'm an asian, so it's big deal.
I don't mind at all! Feel free to ask me anything, lol. First time was a bit painful, just because I was nervous and not relaxed enough. But now it's amazing! I have only had sex with my boyfriend (we've been together for 2 years, known eachother for 5-6 years), so I'm totally comfortable with him. I think that's key to having great sex! When that's said, I don't view sex as a big deal. Many 18 year olds have had sex, many haven't. It's so sad that people stress out about being virgins! For me, sex isn't really something that is so special that I can only have it with someone I love (Ive only had sex with my bf which i love though), but I think the more you trust the person the better it is!
that's great, in my place, if anyone say "sex", some body gonna start laughing, talking about stupid stuff, or ignore immediately. And there is one big rule, never talk about sex with your parents, it will be super awkward.
it's scare me to dead thinking about the conversation i gonna have with my mother. she definitely gonna have a heart attack or something, and if my father has any kind of clue he gonna be like "you have a bf? who the hell is he? i gonna kill that motherfucker" if i'm not married then.
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