I completely trusted someone with a picture ( he and I had been very close for years) and found out later he had sent it to all of my friends and only one of those people actually told me. Never again. It took so long to feel normal again. Listen to this post, don't learn the hard way.
Not fakes. People make mistakes, and that's something that is hard to tell someone. I don't blame my friends I blame the person who showed everyone. I lashed out at first , and every time someone I knew had seen the picture was staring at my chest or made a comment on it I felt like hiding or hitting them. There's so much more to it, I didn't realize that until it happened to me.
I agree with Mgoveia. I know that if I received a pic of one of my friends, girl or guy, then I would let them know immediately. You can try to convince yourself that your "friends" made a mistake about not telling you, but think about it.. Wouldn't you tell them if the role was reversed? That's what being a friend is all about. Having their backs in a time of need/weakness. Not avoiding the situation altogether when it comes to them having a hard time..
I understand what you guys are saying, but given my specific situation. I disagree. There is no way for me to explain it on here, nor do I really want to get into full details. In most other circumstances I would be saying the same thing myself.
Some people do it for the thrill, other because their partners are away. I say just be careful, you obviously know who to thrust. If they're strangers, leave your face out of it (or anything you think could point to you). Chill!
It's never a good idea even if it's your partner and you trust someone. My boyfriend's friends borrow his phone or he shows them a picture on it. All it takes is one swipe to the left or right and they can see more of me than I want them to. I've seen more of my friend's boyfriends than I've ever wanted to by accidentally flipping past a friend's holiday pics. Eep
I'm against sending nudes for two reasons:
1. Nothing is ever private anymore
2. Online pictures are nothing compared to the real thing (this applies in many situations)
If you trust someone enough to have sex with them, nudes should be fine. If you don't think they can be trusted with nudes, Prlly shouldn't have sex with them either.
Hell yea. It's the same as confidential information. Like personal thoughts and feelings, pictures can't be un-sent but words can't be un-said. Don't share anything that deeply personal with someone unless you can honestly trust them tat much.
1. Nothing is ever private anymore
2. Online pictures are nothing compared to the real thing (this applies in many situations)