I just can't see her sad!

Just tighten every jar in the house

Thats not healthy, man.

You have to pick your battles. You can't go to war over everything.

That's so nice and cute, i hope you have a happy life together, you're such a nice guy

Talking about gfs. Me and this cute girl got together just last night. First girl I kissed (besides my mom and sisters) in 10 years

While that is very sweet of you, it's also probably not healthy. You don't need to go to war with her about it, but discuss why it pisses you off and be polite and gentle.

I'm confused. Why stay with someone who pisses you off and to whom you're afraid to talk?