Can we talk about the fact that everyone always criticizes the girl in porn (saying she must have daddy issues, or STDs, or she's a whore) but no one ever criticizes the guy in the porn video who is just as much involved as the girl....?
And you can make hella money from doing porn too. Like, would you rather go to an expensive school and get a degree and hope you get a job afterwards or use your looks to get money off of lonely people ?
But there are stories of pornstars who despite having used the safe word, kept getting banged for the sake of the video. One of the bigger names (I forget who) said that she wanted to cut the scene but the director told the male to keep rolling so she started to go into mild shock.
That's just a case of a boss being a dick and she could probably sue for that. If they had a safe word and the male ignored it she could sue him for rape and the director for assisting.
She also mentioned that there was very little support for pornstars for some reason. I think I may have gotten this info from a hidden post on FS several months back. I'll see if I can google it (without making my browser history too suspicious lol)
Because people think pornstars are gross and dirty people. People act like sex is gross and dirty so those who make a living off of it are even worse to them.
Do what you're good at, and what you enjoy doing. Many highly educated people in their fields despise their jobs if there is no passion. Most feel trapped because they spent their time, money and effort and end up resenting their choices. If you want to suck dick, and you are good at it and make tons of money, whatever man, that's your choice. Good on you for finding a job you enjoy.
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· 9 years ago
No it doesn't make her smart. The fact that porn pays better than the majority of jobs out there however DOES. Just like stripping, it pays the bills
this is not what I am asking. you all seem to be answering based on your ideals and principles, which is fine. however, when emotions come into play things can get a bit shaky. For example, your 18 year old daughter decides that she is not interested in going to school and wants to do porn instead. will your answers change? really think about it.
ok for me if it was my daughter then obviously I'd be a lot more against it, because naturally i just wouldn't think she'd be able to think it properly through, whilst my friends are my own age so I can understand easier. So yeah I wouldn't encourage her and I'd try and persuade her to have a degree or whatever but at the end of the day, if it was desperately something she wanted to do then I wouldn't be able to do anything, and I'd rather that she didnt have to go behind my back to do it so I could make sure she was safe and felt comfortable talking to me if anything was wrong
@thatssofakingcool i think you get where I am coming from best, even though i may have worded my question incorrectly. I was not more interested in your actions so much as what your 'feelings' were. See, when it's not someone you know you don't care as much as when it's someone you know intimately.
@cryingchicken fair enough.
no offense but i dont think my feelings would really come into it. definitely at first and like i explained, i would definitely urge her to look for something else but it's just like when one of your friends make a really stupid decision or something and you just want to make them stop but you have to respect that they're their own person. I'm only guessing, because I don't have a child, but I imagine that I'd love her too much to isolate and destroy our relationship trying to force her to live the way I want her to live. I can protect her easier if I'm closer, you know?
@cryingchicken fair enough.