And "ADHD-kid! You want to punch me or what??!". You forgot that one.
Its not funny when people say such things. Its really not.
Some people actually deserves to get their fingers broken. One by one. Then they would know how fucking much it hurts.
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Then they would fucking get it.
People who get bent out of shape by mean words are showing just how immature, naïve, and fragile they are to the world. The greatest people in the world were all called names and made fun of - did they succeed by being a whiny little bitch and saying, "It's not nice to call me that!". No they did not. They succeeded when they stopped caring what a bunch of assholes had to say and (this is important) GOT ON WITH THEIR LIFE. Seriously, grow some fucking skin people and show some balls. Life is hard and despite what you've been led to believe, it's not going to get any easier. If you stop to cry from every little arrow or stone slung your way, you are not going to make it.
Not everyone is able to be confident with themselves. Some people are shy or scared and they can't just be like "oh I'm not gonna be scared or be shy anymore" it's not that easy. I get what you're trying to point out with your post and you're partly right, just it's not that easy to some people.
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The anorexia and depression ones are so ridiculously true. I suffered from disordered eating (not quite an eating disorder, it never got fully to anorexia) and when I told my little group of friends about my eating and depression after crying all night and wanting to die, there was silence. Then someone said this:
'You're obviously just attention seeking. You? An eating disorder? Get out. Now if you looked like *stick thin friend who's naturally skinny*, then maybe I'd believe you.'
When people say stuff like that, they don't seem to realise how much it can hurt. It hurt me because he was implying I was fat, which is exactly what I least wanted to be, and it hurt my thin friend because he was saying she was too skinny. It's ridiculous how people think this kind of thing is okay...
Oh, and his reaction to the depression?
'Get a life like mine, then pull the depression card.'
Not even going into that one. Just going to leave it at LISTEN TO THE POST.
Some people just don't understand. And way too often people with mental ilnesses are judged or categorized as attention seekers, which just makes everything worse and makes you not want to tell anyone about being depressed/anorexic/etc for fear of being judged and not taken seriously. So thank you for sharing.
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Exactly. The other thing about depression is it's not necessarily because of circumstance, especially around puberty, when hormones make everything seem like a huge deal.....you could be in a great situation and still get depression, then you get stuck in a loop of being guilty for being depressed which makes you feel worse which makes you feel more guilty.
And the stigma that surrounds it....ugh, don't get me started.
Ugh the proper response is "Mo'ne Davis pitched a shutout in the LLWS, so thank you for the compliment." See she's a girl, who played better than the boys.
darling, you don't seem to get it... 'gay' isn't an insult. it is a sexual orientation. it should not be used as an insult like the words 'prick' or 'insensitive asshole'.
Wait, sh*t, wrong thing
*shuffles some paper*
Ah here we go
*YELLS ENTIRE POST AT THE TOP OF MAH LUNGS*
Its not funny when people say such things. Its really not.
Some people actually deserves to get their fingers broken. One by one. Then they would know how fucking much it hurts.
...
Then they would fucking get it.
'You're obviously just attention seeking. You? An eating disorder? Get out. Now if you looked like *stick thin friend who's naturally skinny*, then maybe I'd believe you.'
When people say stuff like that, they don't seem to realise how much it can hurt. It hurt me because he was implying I was fat, which is exactly what I least wanted to be, and it hurt my thin friend because he was saying she was too skinny. It's ridiculous how people think this kind of thing is okay...
Oh, and his reaction to the depression?
'Get a life like mine, then pull the depression card.'
Not even going into that one. Just going to leave it at LISTEN TO THE POST.
And the stigma that surrounds it....ugh, don't get me started.
also the 'gay',dude looks like loki and that's cool too...