I agree. Nobody wants to do something with someone when they know they're just doing it to humor them; you want to do something with someone because you know they actually want to do it with you and they're enjoying themselves. It's like hanging out with friends knowing that they're not really all that thrilled about hanging out with you but they just let you tag along anyway- no one likes that feeling of being pitied and humored. It's the same with relationships. I wouldn't want my SO to do something because they feel like they have to- like it's some kind of obligation-, I'd want them to do it because they either enjoy that particular thing or because they just enjoy spending time with me.
*Uurrh*
*Hrrrnn*
Hold on I know how to do it...
*uses the power of demonic magic to turn guest into a sammich*
Shit that was a person wasn't it