Actually most anal sex involves at least a little amount of shit. There's really no way around it, so Man on Man gay sex would have shit involved. Unless it was oral only, then "that's gay" could mean "that sucks".
unpopular opinion: gay originally meant elated joy.Just like faggot was a pural for bundle of sticks. Words sometimes evolve and their meanings change, when someone says "gay" to something as a negative thing it may not necessarily mean something derogatory inferred against homosexuality. Just like swear words don't have the same offensive weight they used too. Nothing actually harmful meant by it. Just happens.
The word faggot originated when they used to burn people alive, they didn't only burn witches they burn people or homosexuality, they would put the homosexuals at the base of the fire and then the witches above almost like kindling and they would call it a faggot. So actually it's a horrific term. Just because we have these words dosent mean we need to use them. Words die out for a reason...
I think I can. Lots of words have more than one meaning. Gay originally didn't mean homosexual. Doesn't mean you're homophobic to describe something lame as gay.
Even now , calling something gay is more calling it campy or cheesy or just lame.
If I get a flat tire, I don't say "Damnit what gay luck" if my computer freezes I don't say "what a piece of gay"
I'm gay and I often will refer to something as gay when I mean lame. I also will sometimes use the word fag or faggot to describe a person I don't care for. I never mean that they're homosexual. While I'm not saying that I know better than anyone else, words only have power and mean what we want them to mean. Unless someone is calling me something with the intent to be hurtful, I really don't care what word they use.
Personally, I beg to differ. I'm also gay and only take offense at things meant to be offensive, but that's because now I'm secure in who I am. When I was 13 and coming to terms with my sexuality, every day I'd hear my classmates calling people and things "gay" as an insult. Even if they weren't being consciously homophobic, the implication that gay is bad or inferior really fucked me up and made it a lot harder for me to be okay with who I am.
2nd guest: but 'gay' has also evolved to become synonymous with 'lame' or dislikeable etc. As long as they're not bein homophobic, i think it's fine to use that word,
It's pretty shitty
There is porn for shitting on someone.
If I get a flat tire, I don't say "Damnit what gay luck" if my computer freezes I don't say "what a piece of gay"