If you keep looking, you probably won't find. However if you concentrate on the things you love to do, you'll probably meet someone, who is like-minded
The other guest is on the money: obviously looking makes you look needy + that is most likely the least sexy of all qualities. Btw: If you can "convince" her of you, she's a dope. Just be yourself and don't divide the women you meet in "would or would not tap" cause you never know who is the right one for you. I always had a thing for complicated bitches with huge thingies and stuff, and it always was a very temporary thing, til I got together with this decent petite lady who worked in the coffee shop I would always go after work. Totally not on my radar or within my pattern of prey, and yet we're celebrating our 10th just now.
~The person without any romantic experience