There are two kinds of people in the friendzone. For me, she kept coming to me and complaining about other guys until I terminated the friendship. For some people, they are so hung up on their crush that they don't let it go and become like the person you described.
Most of the guys that complains about the friendzone just don't get that the girl don't want them andthe " I prefer being you friend" is just the excuse, then again there's always those girls who really want attention and stuff
Not gonna lie I was definitely this kind of guy. I really liked this girl who is a lesbian and even though I tried telling her how I felt, it just didn't work out. So I respected her and still hung out with her even though I was fooling myself into thinking we were just friends when I still cared
for her. Few months go by and she ends up dating this guy who said she knew him for awhile and they just hit it off. I was really devestatrd by this because I had known her for two years than out of the blue this dude shows up and takes her away. It took time but I had to get myself together and say "Martin, whether she is gay or not, is not the issue, it's that no matter what you do she will never be into you man and gotta let it go". It was hard but I had to let her go. That was three years ago and honestly I wish her the best. I have no idea what she is up too these days but hope she is doing well. You just gotta move on and keep being you.
Whenever I hear someone talk about the "friendzone" I have to wonder if they have any friends at all.
Because in my experience it is commonplace to talk to your friends about your partner, or general dating problems you're going through.
Which makes especially this definition of the friendzone completely nonsensical to me. It sounds like your problem is that after a girl tells you they want to be friends, they actually go ahead an treat you as they would a friend? Pffffff.... Idk what to tell you, buddy...
for her. Few months go by and she ends up dating this guy who said she knew him for awhile and they just hit it off. I was really devestatrd by this because I had known her for two years than out of the blue this dude shows up and takes her away. It took time but I had to get myself together and say "Martin, whether she is gay or not, is not the issue, it's that no matter what you do she will never be into you man and gotta let it go". It was hard but I had to let her go. That was three years ago and honestly I wish her the best. I have no idea what she is up too these days but hope she is doing well. You just gotta move on and keep being you.
Because in my experience it is commonplace to talk to your friends about your partner, or general dating problems you're going through.
Which makes especially this definition of the friendzone completely nonsensical to me. It sounds like your problem is that after a girl tells you they want to be friends, they actually go ahead an treat you as they would a friend? Pffffff.... Idk what to tell you, buddy...