YEES! Like I occasionally ask them if I'm bothering them or am annoying, but they say no. I'm always insecure that they actually do find me annoying, and when they have to leave right when we start chatting, I feel like it's personal. It's horrible really
Yes, especially the most horrible combination of 2 and 3. Often I'm just itching to talk with my friends, even online, but I cannot start a conversation, let alone keep one going.
I'm the exact opposite. Online and in texts I'm calm and social and can talk about anything, but in real life I'm like "ummm...do you like...potatoes?"
All of the above! I used to be so shy in high school that I used to find empty classrooms that I could sit in and do artwork so I didn't have to talk to people. Plus, most of the people in my year were fake assholes. But after I left high school I realised how much of my high school experience I had missed from hidding away. I realised that I had a voice and deserved to use it. It's so sad how shy people and introverts can have such trouble bring social sometimes. Now I can be extremely bubbly and vocal, and i've made it my mission to make friends with people who are too shy to approach people, and once I coaX them out their shell none if them are shy! It's just a confidence thing, and honestly? Confidence can be faked.
See I feel like with my friends I'm a kinda annoying kitty. I want you to pay attention to me, but not a lot and sometimes I just want to be with you, not actually talking but just being together, but if you don't pay attention to me, I'm going to poke you until you do. And hopefully I'm cute/funny enough that people don't get mad at me
I only know what to say right after the actual conversation. It's no fun to be socially inept =/