I'm saying that yes a bad childhood will affect some people differently than others and it may make people not good people. However, I agree that some people do use it as an excuse too much. It shouldn't be an excuse but also sometimes it can't be help. Sorry if that's a little vague
I do agree that how a person is raised affects their behavior. But unless they live under a rock, they would probably have outside influences that could raise them too. So they can't say they didn't know any better.
"Did you rape this woman to death?"
"Yes but I had a rough childhood so it's k"
"Oh, k. It affects people differently than others. Sometimes it can't be help"
No I'm saying that most people learn morals and stuff from other people. Most of society agrees that rape is wrong. If the person's parents had bad morals then the person still had many, many chances to learn right from wrong. So if they still do something wrong, then they need to be punished.
Same for war in my opinion but to be fair I haven't ever expienced combat myself but the guys who came back from World War II started businesses and made America very successful.
whatever happens in your childhood... never bring that until you're adult, coz you're no longer a CHILD for heaven's sake. if you want a new life then CHANGE...you can never be like that forever...as the saying goes "Beat the person you were yesterday so you can be the best today."
I know it's hard...but I've been there, done that :) then again, it all depends to the person, the people around them, the kind of environment they're living in.. and many other factors to consider :) you just gotta be strong
"Yes but I had a rough childhood so it's k"
"Oh, k. It affects people differently than others. Sometimes it can't be help"