But sometimes you can be so tired you'd give anything to sit or need to find something and be able to find a lamp they may not be appreciated all the time but the times they are are very important ;)
Yeah, it's nice not being picked on for being unatractive, but sometimes the lack of attention isn't really that great either. I've learned that if one is 'mid-tractive' one need to compensate the lack of attention by being the one starting small-talks, smile and just being nice.
And then, there are the rest of us.
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