This reminds me of that post where they were talking about how it's transphobic to refuse sex to a trans person if they don't have the genetalia you're attracted to, even though they're the gender you like.
Like, bruh, that's rape ?
same concept. you can be attracted to a type but if you treat people different outside of whether or not they get your number based on skin type you're a douche.
I don't discriminate whatsoever. But I got called racist once because I said I don't find a lot of black men attractive. I would never treat them different based on my attraction to them though
sometimes people just like to call racist because of their own insecurities, one time at work i was pulling a line stanchion cuz the line was backing up and these two people where like 4 feet apart and not looking at each other, so i divided it there, it was a black man and a white woman, and the man lost his shit saying of COURSE i didn't think they were together and his assumptions were so extra absurd cuz he was assuming this without thinking maybe i was a white woman who dates (and was dating at the time) black men and was going off their damn body language... i guess that was a long winded way of saying people who deal with demons start to see them everywhere even places where they aren't at.
I have been trying so hard to capture the idea that everyone should be treated with respect no matter what they look in a single phrase. And this sentence is exactly what I've been looking for.
It's kind of embarrassing to say it out loud in my personal cycle of people (family and friends) because it's unusual and rather...not acceptable in my life and the people around me, but I really have a thing for black men, even if I am a white female.
I can't really control it, or restrain it, or hell, even explain it. It's just that if you are black, I am instantly 10 times more attracted to you than to a person of my race.
i think this sounds more like a case of your circle being the shitty ones because it being "ok" to be aghast about the race of your significant other stopped being a thing some time ago.
Well, in a country like mine (Greece), the 95% are white people, and even if I don't think of Greeks are racist, it's very weird for me to say "I prefer black men to white men." It's guaranteed that I'll get strange looks, and therefore I just keep it a secret.
Like, bruh, that's rape ?
Not that I care if someone else cares about that, it's just not my cup of penis.
I can't really control it, or restrain it, or hell, even explain it. It's just that if you are black, I am instantly 10 times more attracted to you than to a person of my race.