I didn't take it as independent from spouse, but independent from parents. I was not independent on my own when I got married, but my husband and I are fully independent. I know so many people my age that get married that still need their parents support.
That's the parents fault not the married couple. The second I went to college my parents said, "get a job. We'll pay for books and help as much as we can." I got married they said, "we'll pay for the toaster."
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