It's showing the cycle of abuse, with the abused child becoming the abuser as an adult.
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It is suppose to show a cycle. The parents yelling at the kids. Then The kids growing up to treat their kid the same way their parents treated them. Then the cycle starts again.
You don't have too!
If you were abused as a child, firstly I'm incredibly sorry for what happened to you and secondly there are many great services out there that can help you. They can help you deal with not only what happened to you but also ensure your own children don't have to go through what you've been through
They both illustrate a different cycle of abuse. The first is showing physical abuse and the second is showing verbal abuse. They are not a comparison ad and they are not saying that you shouldn't punish your children. This is for when it goes beyond that and turns into abuse and that child grows up to become an abuser because it's all they know. It's a sad situation and unfortunately it happens a lot more often than you think. But you can help! By donating to Save the Children (the charity who created these ads) you can help stop the cycle! Save the Children is a great organisation that strives to achieve different things and are actually managing to make a difference! They do work in a lot of different countries and I know that for the Australian division 84% of all donations go towards the cause and the rest is to cover admin fees. Now some of you may think that 84% is not a high enough number but it's actually one of the highest out there.
TL:DR- Donate to Save the Children
Wrong,
Anyone that has kids will know... talking and talking and talking will only get you so far, for a kid to grasp the gravity of their fu*kup you need to raise your voice and sometimes lift your hand.
What makes a good parent is the way you react afterwards, you need to comfort them and explain the situation.
Fu*kup and you need to pay the price, mom and dad is there to show you the error of your ways!
yes but that is not abuse that is punishment, abuse is when the parents did something wrong and they take it out on their kids. This pictures story is showing that many kids who get abused grow up to abuse their own children and they have anger problems. You are correct that children should be punished because if not then they would screw up again. But abuse is not right, if you got blamed for killing someone and got sent to jail for it and you didn't do it would you be upset? This is showing that the kid do not so anything to deserve this. I have never experienced this first hand but I have second hand and it is not fun. It is ok that you did not understand because I know a lot of people who think the same as you. I just wanted to explain, so please take this into consideration.
If you were abused as a child, firstly I'm incredibly sorry for what happened to you and secondly there are many great services out there that can help you. They can help you deal with not only what happened to you but also ensure your own children don't have to go through what you've been through
TL:DR- Donate to Save the Children
Anyone that has kids will know... talking and talking and talking will only get you so far, for a kid to grasp the gravity of their fu*kup you need to raise your voice and sometimes lift your hand.
What makes a good parent is the way you react afterwards, you need to comfort them and explain the situation.
Fu*kup and you need to pay the price, mom and dad is there to show you the error of your ways!