You will never win

YOUR HYPOCRISY OFFENDS ME

YOUR BEING OFFENDED OFFENDS ME

YOUR COPYING OFFENDS ME

The fact that there are 5 replies offends me

THE FACT THAT YOU DON'T USE CAPS delights me

THE FACT THAT YOU'RE DELIGHTED MAKES ME ANGRY

YOUR ANGER ANGERIES ME

YOU'RE BADLY ENGLISH ANGERIES MORE OF MYSLEF

AAAAAHHHH!!!

THAT'S OFFENSIVE

I dunno. A lot of things that are clearly meant to be jokes can be offensive simply because they belie a fundamental apathy towards a serious situation, or use someone else's lifelong struggle as a catalyst for a moment's humor.

I know that people make jokes that are way too extreme, but im talking about obvious jokes that are maybe a little offensive, but not intended to harm

Ehhh, there's a line. I can see the "harmless humor" angle, but I can also see the "It stopped being both harmless and funny the fifteenth time I heard it this week" angle. It's like fat jokes - nobody's pissed off because fat jokes are really that vile (at least, most of them aren't), fat people get pissed off at them because they've heard them twice a day since whenever they gained the weight and they've gotten tired of being reduced to a punchline.