Okay guys the post/meme clearly says exploring your sexuality, which most likely means his wife cheated on him with another woman. That being said, it's okay to be bi or in an open relationship if both parties are okay with it, but I'm guessing by the tone of the message that's not the case, so YES she CHEATED on him and NO that's not okay... weather it's with a man or woman, if he is not cool with it then , maybe they should separate
Ok, but on thing is to discover or realicing you are gay, and another one that you are bi. What changes? If you still love you husband and you continuo choosing him, adding that you are sexualy atracct to girls shouldnt change nothing. The obvious here is that she been cheating, and that my English sucks, sorry. I understand that the situation turned more difficulte because of her discover, but thats not a reason for hurting someone you love.
Tell her you have similar suspicions about your sexual identity, and you experimented with the young; smooth; tight-assed lifeguard at your gym. The one with the baby face, high pitched moan, wet lacy panties, and desire to ride your big hard stud cock for hours while you use and own that buttpussy. See what she says.
If the wife has actually cheated on him then he is not the bad guy. But if she has not and she is just exploring, like thinking and maybe feeling feelings for women, then maybe its time you rethink yourself
Hmm. I thought marriages were about compromise. Though this should have been brought up before marriage, it's still good that she laid it on the table.
^Are you kidding me? OP i would immediately get an annulment and since she confessed to cheating you don't have to give her anything. If she telling you she has been messing around with women she probably has been doing a lot more that she isn't telling you about.
I'm not kidding. People are WAY to uptight about sex IMHO. And my guess is, if she confessed this there isn't "more she isn't telling you", but rather she's actually trying to be honest.
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Why is sex the one this that people both need to lie about and people can't seem to understand that it's just a fun act between two consenting adults?
Well, I don't know all the details of course, but being bi-curious doesn't mean that she's actually seeing other women. She's attracted to men but that doesn't mean that she has had sex with every man in existence.
Yeah, that part I don't buy one bit. But I'm certainly in the minortity their. I've been perfectly fine being loyal and living with open relationships though.
There is a massive difference between hey I think I like women, is it ok with you husband if I expirement with this versus, hey I've been cheating on you and sleeping with other people, deal with it.
Marriage shouldn't be about compromise. If that's the case then I'm definitely never getting married, and probably will never date (not like this isn't already fated to be so but whatever). It should be about synergy.
People are way too uptight about sex. Stupid puritans. But that doesn't mean you should be banging everything that moves either. In marriage there should be an expectation and communication about this.
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Why is sex the one this that people both need to lie about and people can't seem to understand that it's just a fun act between two consenting adults?
People are way too uptight about sex. Stupid puritans. But that doesn't mean you should be banging everything that moves either. In marriage there should be an expectation and communication about this.