I felt like self harming two weeks ago, and then I intentionally do the ice salt challenge until I got frostbite on my hand. Still not healed till today
Sorry for not becoming a weakling like every one of you new-generation kids. Since the advent of the internet, a far larger amount of people have become weaklings that have ever existed before. I think that this is caused by the fact that people have more ways to complain about their problems and have more people telling them that their problems are legitimate. Before, people would just suck it up, but now everyone is as frail as a particularly brittle eggshell. Before kids who were bullied at school would become tougher in the future, now kids who experience even the slightest bit of teasing fly off the handle and shoot up a school. Let's go back to the old days where people didn't kill themselves over any small problem. Humans are designed to overcome problems, not immediately succumb to the most minor hinderances. Sorry for not enabling the further weakening of the human race by saying, 'oh its definitely OK to self harm, your first world, gated community problems are legitimate!'
Its so hilarious seeing you reflecting about the beginning of the internet and how people were so tough in the olden days when its so blatantly obvious you're like 15 or so. Not that there's anything wrong about being 15 and solving the seven riddles of life in between two chicken chokings, but its hella cute and pathetic at the same time. This is assuming you are really 15, cause when you're older than lets say 17, the cute is just gone...
Oh OK so you just ignore the truth of my statements, and instead make unfounded claims about my age and other behaviors, meaning that you have no good rebuttal to my claims. This means that you are admitting that you are incorrect. Anyway, I'm currently 18, and while I obviously have not firsthand experienced the pre-internet era, it is easy to cite previously existing yet well documented eras. You're essentially a mindless idiot who cannot respond properly to differing worldviews, who will instead try to change the focus of a discussion in order to mask the frailty of your arguments.
The problem, as I see it, with your statements is that you act as though self harm and suicide are brand new things brought on by the Internet which isn't true at all. With the invention and mass use of the Internet normally private topics that were never spoken about before have gained new light. This issue was actually at its peak in the 1990's, before the mass of people began using the Internet, when princess Diana came out as someone who had self-harmed. Awareness of the issue skyrocketed and doctors and psychiatrists began treating self harm in a more progressive way. Since the 90's self-harm and suicide have actually been on the decline.
Also, in the mental health spectrum self-harm and suicide are still under scrutiny by the much older doctors and psychiatrists in the same manner as eating disorders were treated pre-1970. People originally thought that people with eating disorders were attention seeking, sounds familiar, but it came to be that medical professionals began realizing it was a mental illness rather than something that can be controlled at will. This lead way to funded study and treatments into solving the issue and what is being seen with self-harm and suicide are very similar.
You're an 18 year old child with a superiority complex. "New generation kids" -- I'm 25. Also, you have no way of knowing that a far larger amount of people have been weaklings than before because it's unquantifiable. You can parade around like a hardass from a bygone era, or you can quit complaining yourself, get off your high horse and kindly shut your mouth.
The "truth of your statements" - kiddo, you just crack me up. You just pull your "claims" out of your ass and seriously expect anyone to debate you? You're like the doofus kid on a badly written sitcom. Its not even fun to see you fuck up.
Funsubstanceuser, you can't tell me that I pull claims out of my ass when you've already made multiple false and unfounded statements about me. These statements were that I: "prey on people who I think are gay," am 15, and have discovered the meaning of life while jacking off. To the more level headed and intelligent metalman, I say this: the internet has led to a significantly higher amount of 12-13 year olds who are suicidal, cut, etc. because they are given attention on the internet, whereas before, little kids didn't do that stupid shit because everyone would just tell them to fuck off. To theodorerex, you being 25 actually doesn't give your words too much more merit than mine. Many people could easily argue that you are a child as well. Anyway regardless, you all have to admit that the internet has made it more easy for people to get attention, and has thus led to a lot more people who act this way, not because they have mental illness, but because they want attention.
Of course it gives my words more merit. And the difference between the two of us is I'm acting like an adult. Empathy comes with age... You're just coming across as an angry child throwing a tantrum.
You know what fuck this guy. You have absolutely no right to tell anyone they're being 'weak' or that their problems aren't valid.
Yes, maybe suicude rates have increased with the invention of the Internet and social media, but that doesn't mean it wasn't still a huge issue before this. It just wasn't as in your face as it is now that we are so connected to eachother through these social platforms. fuck you for saying our problems are 'fake' or that we're 'attention seekers'. True, there might be a few out there but it is not okay to tell someone else that they're just seeking attention, that is one of the main reasons mental illness isn't being treated or talked about the way it should be, idiots like you are the reason suicide rates have increased drastically l. Because no one feels protected or comfortable enough to talk about their problems in case they come across dickheads like you who will tell them that they need to suck it up. This is not okay and once again, fuck you
I know it feels bad, my sister lost her year streak two weeks ago, but even though it seems so far away try to think of it as a goal to make it another 7 months and then keep going from there. I'm rooting for you! :) best wishes
Want to know the secret to quitting forever? :) find a way to truely improve your mental state, maybe through counselling, online resources (getselfhelp website, meditation like the honest guys), changing your thought processes, and if you're a teenager - it will get better in time (not necessarily cured, but less awful). When you do this, you'll no longer feel the need to self harm, so you won't 'give up' it'll just stop, until you reach the point where the idea of it makes you feel weird and you can't do it anymore!
If anyone needs help please comment <3
Progress is progress and I don't mean this in a rude way, but seek help. There's hope! There is medicine, there are support groups, there is a future free from self harm. I'm currently on medicine for depression, paranoid schizophrenia, panic disorder and OCD... I wasn't on medicine for a substantial amount of time and now that I look back on that time, I can say I was hardly living, and that's no way to go through life. I hope things start looking up.
Best wishes to you, self harm is a very hard thing to keep oneself from doing. Its so worth it to stop though. You'd be surprised how things can change for the better, even if it takes a while. You're okay, and you'll be even better before you know it.
I thought about trying the ice when I get urges.... Does it really work?
Ps, I'm so proud of you this is awesome, it may not seem like much now but it's a huge step in the right direction, keep it up and always keep fighting :)
It's very hard to explain how self harm works to people who have either never experienced it themselves or don't understand/care to try and understand it.
I don't get why people think self-harm is so bad. I mean, yeah, it sucks that you feel so hurt that you hurt yourself but I'm not an alcoholic, drug addict, and I feel so calm & balanced afterwards. I can get things done and face things and be apart of the crowd after I self-harm. Otherwise I just wallow and can't move or breathe and it hurts to live. A good cutting session and I'm out & about & off doing things. I make sure the knife is clean, the wounds cleaned & covered in healing ointment.
Oi man, I really think you just need to stop. The things you're saying can be really fucking hurtful to other people, just start thinking about that you say dickhead. Also, encouraging self harm is absolutely not okay in any situation
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So so so many props, good luck <3
Yes, maybe suicude rates have increased with the invention of the Internet and social media, but that doesn't mean it wasn't still a huge issue before this. It just wasn't as in your face as it is now that we are so connected to eachother through these social platforms. fuck you for saying our problems are 'fake' or that we're 'attention seekers'. True, there might be a few out there but it is not okay to tell someone else that they're just seeking attention, that is one of the main reasons mental illness isn't being treated or talked about the way it should be, idiots like you are the reason suicide rates have increased drastically l. Because no one feels protected or comfortable enough to talk about their problems in case they come across dickheads like you who will tell them that they need to suck it up. This is not okay and once again, fuck you
If anyone needs help please comment <3
Ps, I'm so proud of you this is awesome, it may not seem like much now but it's a huge step in the right direction, keep it up and always keep fighting :)