* whispers * They publicly shame you for not constantly looking up new PC terms but god forbid they are asked to provide sources for their ridiculous claims
When your genitals match what you feel like. Like you have a penis and feel like a man, versus being trans where you have a penis and feel like a woman
Who's skinny "shaming"? The public worries for anorexic people, while only accepting super skinny models, and makes fun of fat people.
People fighting against sexism usually don't hate men, they hate male, sexist behaviour. And many of them are men.
Heterophobia? Hating CIS persons? Really? I guess more people hate fluffy bunnies than CIS/heteros.
Let 2016 be the year to end these bullshit fairytales about lesbian feminazis who hate straights and are offended by christmas and happiness.
Right, these things happen. The fairytale is that the numbers are comparable, as if there was as much heterophobia as homophobia, and as much skinny shaming as there is fat shaming. The problem is that people believe their online experience is reflecting reality, when actually the algorithms serve you, what you have looked at already, and liked it. This makes people believe, their view is shared by a majority and therefore right. Showing me a reddit page as "proof" is a very sad and discouraging thing to see.
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The point isn't which one happens more or how many people on the Internet agree just because fat shaming is more common doesn't mean my personal experience was any less hurtful and hating an entire group over the actions of some is an ineffective and sad way to lead a life. I was skinny shamed and I didn't turn around and lash out at bigger people what good would it have done?
Who says your experience wasn't hurtful? I am not talking about your personal experience at all, and yes, numbers and relations matter - in this very topic they do
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I disagree it's a matter of feelings numbers don't change the way someone feels. I'm aware that being shamed for any reason feels like shit so I don't shame people it's that simple. You'd expect the larger groups that do get that hate would realize that being hated hurts and wouldn't want to spread that around. Holding grudges and lashing out at complete strangers over what some other idiot did wont solve anything.
Again, I'm not talking about you and about how you feel. Out of respect I would never try and change someones feelings by setting her/is personal experiences and feelings into any ratio or comparison. I did not intend this here and with all due respect, I won't discuss this aspect,with you, and you'l have to accept that.
Not for nothing but does anyone else have a problem with terms like "homophobia, Islamophobia," etc? Just because someone doesn't like someone else doesn't mean they are afraid of them. Hatred is hatred.
"Normal" is mostly used as a judgmental term. Without judgement,, normal is all there is, and that's a much larger variety than normal and unnormal, so the term isn't helpful either when used non-judgmental.
Literally you are the gender you were born as. If you have a dick, you're a guy. If you have a womb/vagina, you're a woman. That is what cisgender is, there is no change to what you were born as. Imagine if Bruce Jenner had never become Caitlyn and never felt uncomfortable in her body and remained a guy.
Like seriously, that's snot inside a shell, not eating that
Opposite of transgender
People fighting against sexism usually don't hate men, they hate male, sexist behaviour. And many of them are men.
Heterophobia? Hating CIS persons? Really? I guess more people hate fluffy bunnies than CIS/heteros.
Let 2016 be the year to end these bullshit fairytales about lesbian feminazis who hate straights and are offended by christmas and happiness.
Or
Here's some proof for the non believer
https://www.reddit.com/r/TumblrInAction/
But not for them