I was trying to process a bunch of stimuli as I was reading this and I'm still trying to decipher whether this is saying that guys can hurt gurls just as much with the friendzone or if it hurts the girl to friendzone guys.
I've been on the receiving and the 'giving' part of friendzone. The ones I like only like me as friends and the ones that would like to take it a step further with me, I only care for as freinds. Sucks on both sides.
I think that just because you are nice to someone,that doesn't obligate them to date you.I've been "friendzoned" but at least I found out early that nothing was going to happen between us,so It was easier to move on.Guys use it more often.Being polite and kind to a guy/girl doesn't mean that he/she has to be your boyfriend/girlfriend if she doesn't want to.Especially if you don't make your intention clear from the start.
Once upon a time I was with two of my friends and the more handsome one managed to find himself a girl to talk to. So we were walking along and then all of a sudden the other friend puts his hand in front of the handsome friend's crotch. When asked what the hell he was doing, he replied that he was being a cockblock.
Never had any boys take interest....I'm 17 and never had a boyfriend or even a boy ask me out....I'm not super skinny but I am far from fat and I'd like to believe that in not ugly but sometimes I wonder why no one seems to like me...
Yea but have you guys ever had a boyfriend? A first kiss? A guy who went up and TALKED to you? I just want someone to talk to me so I know that I won't be alone...and I know being single is fine and you should wait for the love of your life...but honestly being alone and not having people love you is scary....
I'll tell you why.
1. You lack confidence
2. If you like someone, plant little flirtatious seeds. Seeds of flirtation. Get them to consider you as a possibility. Don't just sit around wondering why nobody can see the amazing, unique, less-obvious but still attractive person you are.
This was me. Now at 29 i have had boyfriends. However, now I see all my friends getting married and even my Exes. I do not think i am beautiful (my friends do) but i do't think I am uglu. I am smart, I have a good job. I like to cook and love to do it for my bf. I am funny and easy going and everyone even my married and engaged friends (girls and guys) say i am the most wife material out of all.. .... men say women do not know what they want. Well I think neither do men. You girls I am sure you have a lot to offer. There is nothing wrong with any of you.
There is everything wrong with me and I'm proud of it. It's why I'm gonna be the guy who's gonna take over the world.
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But in seriousness, that was a good speech. Copy-paste it into a notepad document and keep it for some other time you might need it.
1. You lack confidence
2. If you like someone, plant little flirtatious seeds. Seeds of flirtation. Get them to consider you as a possibility. Don't just sit around wondering why nobody can see the amazing, unique, less-obvious but still attractive person you are.
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But in seriousness, that was a good speech. Copy-paste it into a notepad document and keep it for some other time you might need it.
http://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/141690977X/ref=mp_s_a_1_3?qid=1454872611&sr=8-3&pi=SY200_QL40&keywords=hes+just+not+that+into+you&dpPl=1&dpID=513DRn6eD7L&ref=plSrch