I find it fascinating how, as a guy, I can have self control and know whether or not I really want to have sex, and be fully responsible for my decisions while drunk, but apparently girls are not expected to be as competent and responsible.
I've been drunk many many times around very good looking girls, but even in the times when I was completely smashed, I knew what I was doing and had enough common sense to know what I should or should not say, and whether or not I should try to hook up with any particular girl.
I'm just saying that holding girls to a lower standard either means you deny the evidence and believe that it's not possible to make a good decision while drunk, or you believe that girls are stupider than guys and need rules set in place to compensate.
I've seen plenty of evidence to prove that you can still be held accountable for drunk decisions, and I don't believe girls are by nature stupider than guys. So girls and guys should be held to the same standard.
I don't think males or females (etc) should have sex with someone who's overly intoxicated. But I also think people should try their best to not incapacitate themselves, out of safety.
man is sober, fucks drunk girl, man is rapist. man is drunk, fucks sober girl, man is rapist. man is drunk, fucks drunk girl, man is rapist. man exists, man is rapist. fuck this bullshit system.
Having sex isn't inherently wrong. Having sex drunk isn't inherently wrong. Automatically pinning rape on a drunk sex is inherently wrong because the man has no way of defending himself.
I've been drunk many many times around very good looking girls, but even in the times when I was completely smashed, I knew what I was doing and had enough common sense to know what I should or should not say, and whether or not I should try to hook up with any particular girl.
I'm just saying that holding girls to a lower standard either means you deny the evidence and believe that it's not possible to make a good decision while drunk, or you believe that girls are stupider than guys and need rules set in place to compensate.
I've seen plenty of evidence to prove that you can still be held accountable for drunk decisions, and I don't believe girls are by nature stupider than guys. So girls and guys should be held to the same standard.