Do YOU? "I don't like people, I have my own personal bubble, leave me alone, I feel small and sad, I always get left behind"
Basically, a fucking pessimist
And that's what he's doing
Therainbow remember when I completely fucking destroyed you emotionally and humiliated you in front of everyone? Stop acting like a BaDaSs~ who loves comment wars. -man
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Thanks to whoever posted this. I needed to know other people go through this too. At school my "friend" (who I think does consider me a friend but takes my friendship for granted) ignores me, makes fun of what I like or my actions, and just leaves me out. It's hard to tell yourself you're wanted when you're entire (full) lunch table ignores you and acts like you aren't even there. I just feel like she isn't my friend anymore and just shoots down everything I say or do. She leaves me when I wait for her, and just isn't being a very good friend. People always talk about having that one best friend who they can trust no matter what and lately I've realized I don't have that. I place too much trust in people (it's my flaw - I trust my friends too much when I guess they don't consider me as close as I do them.), just to have them turn on me. I That's happened in multiple friend groups. If y'all have any advice for this or want to talk, I'd love to hear it. It's been hard lately.
I don't know what to do though- I don't want to cut ties, that would just break apart the rest of my friend group (the other two in my group really are good people, they don't do this) and I can't risk losing the two people I can confide in. And I hide my emotions a lot - another flaw of mine - and on the outside I'm smiling and laughing so I think my 'friend' thinks I'm all okay, and doesn't pick up how I'm really feeling. That's part my fault but still, I can't put her being a bad friend on myself. Ugh.
I also don't have a really close friend. I think that you should talk to the two you mentioned about it and tell them about what is happening and how it makes you feel. They should help you work something out like, rather than hanging with the whole group you and them sit together. I also have the same problems as you do with your personality and all I can say is that you have to try to let people know that it is not okay. Most likely someone else in the group feels the same away as you do. Don't be afraid to talk to other people as well. I joined a sporting group which helps as it means that no matter what I have some friends. If no one stands by you then I recommend trying to find new ones while still talking to the two you like. They are not real friends if they don't support you. You always have me if you need an outside person to talk to.
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Don't worry, even i don't have a trusted good friend right now. The only people who are my friends are on this website and a WhatsApp group.
Try to be close to the other people in your groups too, the other two people that you mentioned. Or else find new groups to hangout, I'm sure you will have some kinda hobby or something, find some people there. We will always be route friends on this website though. You can talk to me anywhere, i comment almost everywhere, and now i don't feel that alone .You will find good people , I'm sure.
I'm always happy to have a friend.
:)
Oh man gawd this this poest maed me waste 30 secunds of man time I gotaaa go start a fite in le comments lelelexdxd I'm betr than anyone else their problms r fake n gaeyaeay n don't mater lelelxd
I don't think that this was just complaining, if he was confessing/getting something off his chest, he should be a)treated with respect, b)not judged (it's hard to do this so don't call someone 'ego' or whatever without knowing them, c)treated like a human with emotions. You might not agree, but if he feels this way, he should at least be listened to and treated nicely because ITS WHAT HE FEELS! its not what you feel, this isn't about you! besides, if he's treated awfully over this, he might not feel that he is able to share his thoughts/feelings with us again. Also, telling him to go get some actual friends, do you know how hard that is? speaking from personal experience, its not as easy as it sounds, especially when people already see you a certain way - it's hard to change their perceptions of you. I'm sorry, but this just really got to me.
I think the word that better suits what you're trying to say is empathy. To answer your question though a pity party is just that, pitiful oh boo hoo feel bad for meme everyone has felt left out one time or another....
*cries*
Thank you frisky
You can call em friends just because it's something.
They're right here
You on drugs or something? 0_0
Yellllp I'm stuck
Basically, a fucking pessimist
And that's what he's doing
what you said isn't at all contextually related
It was in the past.
Y'all can chill now
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Try to be close to the other people in your groups too, the other two people that you mentioned. Or else find new groups to hangout, I'm sure you will have some kinda hobby or something, find some people there. We will always be route friends on this website though. You can talk to me anywhere, i comment almost everywhere, and now i don't feel that alone .You will find good people , I'm sure.
I'm always happy to have a friend.
:)
I was confessing dude.
I Don't need advice from you.
Also your comment really induced a warm feeling in my chest.im not lying i swear on my life.