There needs to be some sort of deal where whoever started the conversation last time doesn't have to start it the next time. I know that when I'm always initiating the conversation, I start to worry that I'm sounding like I'm nagging.
If it is the first text/call as in the text/call you are saying you want to set up a date I say who ever wants it more should text/call. I have done the firat text/call many times. But I have had sometimes I will wait to see if they do it first because I am not that into them or I feel they were not that into me.
Is that fair?