In my opinion losing your husband and/or son die is worse than death. I think the primary victims are the soldiers who come back injured and traumatized but the women are the secondary victims. Death doesn't hurt once it's over.
yes and no, i don't completely agree, but it should go for any significant other or family member of a fallen soldier is a victim of the war for losing the ones they love. that doesn't make them a primary victim though, just a person who lost their loved ones to the wars.
That is not ignorant. It's true. I guess yes. This would make women indirect victims but once passed people are not suffering. Their family and other close ones are. Specially their SOs, children, and parents
Jk before anyone thinks I'm being heartless