Why women?

I'm not sure, but I know that I get really insecure when I talk about all my problems but the person I'm talking to doesn't say anything about themselves. I feel like I'm using them and that I'm being selfish, and I get paranoid that they're only listening because they have to to be polite. But that's just my paranoid mind. xD

Cause once you love someone
You wanna hear about their problems too
You wanna seem like a selfish whining little bitch that can't shut up

Because it's not a healthy relationship if only one person talks about their problems and thoughts, both people in the relationship need to put in the same amount of effort

But sometimes it's impossible to talk about our problems, it would freak the girl out

'Cause she's being totally vulnerable to you about all her emotions and you're staying guarded and not opening up.

The too good listener part idk. The never talk about your problems: we feel you can't open to us and makes us feel like there is no communication. Communication is a two way street. And IMO a girl that wants that is usually better than one who just talks about herself and doesn't care how you feel or what's going on with you.