It's so complicated

I have no fuckin clue

It doesnt

First you need to make a deal with the devil

Trust, respect, commonality, and lots of time, patience, and communication

No idea.
For me, it sort of just happens, then it stops.
Then I still have no idea how I did either.

meet people

Well first u have a crazy crush on at least 100 people, then you find one of them that likes u back

Yea it kinda happens when you wish it to go away
So start with that

Happened to me three months after I was finally and entirely sure I wasn't meant to be part of a couple, after many, many years of intensely looking for it., I don't say this as helpful advice, I know we're just extremely lucky. My recommendation would be not to settle for anything less than perfect, and that's sh#tty advice as you're going to be alone forever probably. I just cannot be with anyone for more than a few hours in a row, except my wife.