This is completely normal ;) Being interested and curious about other people, even your own sex, does not make you bi/gay
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· 7 years ago
I know a guy who was totally convinced he was straight until he was in his late 30s. He said he was straight but "not so into that sex thing" so he had a lot of female friends but never a girlfriend. He used to live in a small city, family and friends very strict catholics, so maybe if he felt an urge, he would suppress it, idk. After his parents died when he was 37, he moved to Berlin., Took him three months to meet this super nice guy in an online chat, found out he also lived in berlin, met him and fell in love. A few weeks after they moved in together, another year later they "married" (in Germany that means you can register a partnership, but it isn't 100% like a marriage). The pressure from outside and also from within yourself can be so strong that you can fool yourself even about such basic matters.
I wish we weren't so afraid of homosexuality. So what if you want to, and so what if it makes you bi? It's all a-okay as long as you don't hurt anyone.
But you already got huge boobs yourself, oak
If you are 'spit roasting' the girl in question and eiffel tower, but instead of high fiving the other dude, you smooch... that's kinda hot.
I'm glad he has found love