I've never made a man sleep on the couch in order to make him uncomfortable. The one time I ever insisted on sleeping in a separate room from my significant other was on an occasion when he'd betrayed my trust deeply enough that I couldn't relax and fall asleep in the same room with him. TL;DR the "sleep on the couch" thing may be about *her* feelings, not yours.
Not to be "that" person... but I've seen it happen over arguments not breaking trust, or on a high level. If y'all are married or whatever, and both paying the bills, it is wrong to force someone else to do something because you are pissed off at them. Now, yes. Breaking trust is a huge ordeal. I understand that. However, still telling a person what to do out of anger is controlling, and that should never happen in a relationship. If you don't wanna sleep next to that person, then you go sleep on the couch.
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· 7 years ago
Why should she be punished if she'd done nothing wrong? Shouldn't the more uncomfortable situation be given to the wrong doer?
You are probably right, but you can´t force someone to do something. I think that the person should be mature enough to take a hint and go sleep at the couch but it isn´t an obligation.
Sorry for my english.
Sorry for my english.