This is an easily resolved situation. Set it to a economically and environmentally responsible temperature that is as close to hers as possible.
You get to suck it up.
I have learned for personal experience that there is no negotiation to be had in this circumstance. Only concession.
You want a quiet happy life? Give up and suck it up... and keep her "happy." If she's not happy, you're not happy.
If she's unhappy long enough, you'll be unhappy with half your stuff.
Not so in my case actually, I "got away" with two duffles and the clothes on my back.
Hard to go your "own way" when there's a loosely organised community and organization. I don't begrudge them anything, but I'll just take care of myself, thanks.
You get to suck it up.
You want a quiet happy life? Give up and suck it up... and keep her "happy." If she's not happy, you're not happy.
If she's unhappy long enough, you'll be unhappy with half your stuff.
Not so in my case actually, I "got away" with two duffles and the clothes on my back.
Hard to go your "own way" when there's a loosely organised community and organization. I don't begrudge them anything, but I'll just take care of myself, thanks.