Well, if you "lack resources," then marriage shouldn't be on your mind until you are in a better position.
The girl of my dreams (whoever tf that is) could come up to me right now, ask me to marry her and I'd turn her down. I'd tell her no becasue she deserves someone better... better off financially too, that I distinctly lack resources and a fair few other things to be what she deserves.
Three years... is a very long time to spend on a proposal
I mean it's sweet and all, but Jesus Christ
How long did it take to plan the wedding if the proposal alone was three years
The girl of my dreams (whoever tf that is) could come up to me right now, ask me to marry her and I'd turn her down. I'd tell her no becasue she deserves someone better... better off financially too, that I distinctly lack resources and a fair few other things to be what she deserves.
I mean it's sweet and all, but Jesus Christ
How long did it take to plan the wedding if the proposal alone was three years