I may not personally think it's alright to throw swears about in casual fun with children, but my parents swore around me when I was young. Like most everything with kids you need to give context and boundaries. Children aren't dumb, they're just blank slates until they get knowledge and life experience to make informed choices. The fact is there are things adults do kids can't, and as you get older things others can do you can't. There are times and places for things. Raising a child in a vacuum of inappropriateness or unpleasantness isn't the same as teaching them appropriate behavior. We should never mistake a well behaved person for one who would misbehave but either lacks ability or opportunity to do so. If you put a criminal on a deserted island they won't ever commit any crimes, but if you take them off the island and put them in the house next door, are they actually well behaved or did they just lack opportunity?
I was reading an article about this and how so many people are supporting the mother who initially posted that. Yes, sometimes children’s actions are asshole-ish, but the children themselves are not assholes. Huge difference. So, sorry, but I don’t agree with parents calling small children assholes.
Think I saw that as a postcard somewhere