You're fine. I'll pretend like this isn't 100% probably crap and play along. It says "meet" not date or marry. It also doesn't define meet. A cashier or ticket taker? Someone you once told they forgot their book? Meet is very vague. You've likely "met" thousands or more people depending on how we define "meet." So if this were true you may not even remember having met each other. It doesn't specify when people start dating or become intimate with that person- only when they meet. So you're fine.
Oh? Studies? I was unaware science had both quantified how to determine what or who a soulmate is- or that it had made such a revolutionary discovery. I wonder who did the studying then and who was studied? I suspect those things could impact the data. How interesting that the target age just happens to be so young. As if the type of person they suspect would buy into such a headline were perhaps younger...?
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· 6 years ago
The studies ask you if you have found a sole mate and what age you were
Scientists didn’t quantity anything, the people did
That's my point. A survey isn't a study. It's intentionally misleading. A study is a detailed investigation of a subject, not a poll of a shallow sampling. Further as you say- it relies on people to determine who their soul mate is. We have no idea the average age of people surveyed, or how long they've been in a relationship. If determine your soulmate was so easy there likely would be far fewer divorces. It doesn't have the same authority if we say something like "50 people at a mall have an average answer of 21 for when they fell in real love" or "random Facebook quiz shows 500 probably real people met the person they think is their soulmate at 21." It's weasel words.
Yes. You may have met your “soulmate” without knowing it- maybe you’ll date next year, maybe in 10. Who knows. Maybe the only “soul mate” any of us really has is ourselves, and 2018 is the year you find a glimpse of who you really are. Maybe you should spend the rest of this year and as long as needed after to be kind and take care of yourself. Maybe you’ll have many lives in life or one great one that once you find it will last forever. But you’ll have you your whole life. Who you are will determine the sort of people you attract and keep. Do you, worry about soul mates later. Be safe and have a happy holiday.
I just want to say congrats on keeping us updated. But don't lose hope some meet theirs much later. My brother 2yrs younger than me is still looking and he is (if I say this don't you dare do the math to my age) 34. Lol
But he never lost hope he knows there is a woman out there for him. And there is someone out there for you.
Scientists didn’t quantity anything, the people did
But he never lost hope he knows there is a woman out there for him. And there is someone out there for you.