just say you dont give a damn about their disability, its not your fault
nut it's totally their fault for being a dumb bitch
or say something like "karma comes early for ya huh" while looking at their problems (it's very mean but im mean)
Being a caregiver is a choice to give up a bit of your freedom and your time. You're tired and you just want to get a movie? Maybe, but instead you'll wash your old father. Having a hard time meeting the deadlines at work? Well it's gonna be a challenge since you gotta help feed grandpa. Wanna take holidays? The fuck no, you can't. Your life is hard and you feel like crying? You'll cry while you watch someone you love struggling with simple tasks. Your kid unable to walk, your mom who is following a horrible diet and eating her meds knowing full well it makes her nauseous.
It's not one day of your life, it's every day and emotionnally damaging.
Here is a little story of the meanest mentally disabled person I ever met.
I knew this guy since we were in 1st grade. We went to the same schools all the way to high school. His name was Bobby. He looked just like Bubba from Forrest Gump. He even knew the WHOLE SPEECH of Bubba listing off the food you can make with shrimp and loved to say it.
Now here is how he is the meanest.
We rode the same bus to jr. High because I am dyslexic and had to go to a jr high clear across town that was the only jr high that had classes for dyslexia and they had classes for students like Bobby.
So one day I get on the bus and I am dragging my coat. I stand on my coat sleeve tripping me and my back pack flew out of my hands hits the windshield and I fall flat in the walk way. Bobby laughs very hard and says "THAT WAS HALARIOUS MELODIE YOU RETARD!"
Yup he called me retarded. lmao I said to him "BOBBY that isn't nice!" He told me " I can say that word but you can't. And I say you ARE retarded." lmao
I know and it really hurt my feelings to. lol
But really it is by far the best insult I have ever gotten. I have been called fat and ugly and every insult under the sun but it will never EVER top Bobby calling me a retard.
And other than that moment he was always the sweetest kindest guy you will ever meet. And this was the only EVER moment I EVER seen someone like him be anything close to being mean.
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· 6 years ago
I would have punched him in the face. From what I've found by personal experience, a lot of mentally disabled people are smarter than we give them credit for and know that they can get away with a lot more shit that the rest of us and use it to their advantage. Therefore: do not treat them specially and instead treat them like you would anyone else.
He didn't trip me lol he just said by far the best burn anyone ever said. Lmao and honestly I was so shocked it made me laugh. He doesn't deserve a punch to the face. He was always the sweetest guy ever.
Person dealing with depression here amd I can honestly say...HOW DARE YOU, DO YOU KNOW HOW HARD MY LIFE IS?!?!?! EVERY DAY I DEAL WITH THIS CRAP IN MY HEAD, I AM AN INCREDIBLE HERO FOR BEING STRONGER THAN YOULL EVER BE!!! (Pure sarcasm of course). Fully agree disabled shouldnt be treated as special, or heroes but rather as equals.
nut it's totally their fault for being a dumb bitch
or say something like "karma comes early for ya huh" while looking at their problems (it's very mean but im mean)
It's not one day of your life, it's every day and emotionnally damaging.
I knew this guy since we were in 1st grade. We went to the same schools all the way to high school. His name was Bobby. He looked just like Bubba from Forrest Gump. He even knew the WHOLE SPEECH of Bubba listing off the food you can make with shrimp and loved to say it.
Now here is how he is the meanest.
We rode the same bus to jr. High because I am dyslexic and had to go to a jr high clear across town that was the only jr high that had classes for dyslexia and they had classes for students like Bobby.
So one day I get on the bus and I am dragging my coat. I stand on my coat sleeve tripping me and my back pack flew out of my hands hits the windshield and I fall flat in the walk way. Bobby laughs very hard and says "THAT WAS HALARIOUS MELODIE YOU RETARD!"
Yup he called me retarded. lmao I said to him "BOBBY that isn't nice!" He told me " I can say that word but you can't. And I say you ARE retarded." lmao
But really it is by far the best insult I have ever gotten. I have been called fat and ugly and every insult under the sun but it will never EVER top Bobby calling me a retard.
And other than that moment he was always the sweetest kindest guy you will ever meet. And this was the only EVER moment I EVER seen someone like him be anything close to being mean.