"Nice Guys", creeps and weirdos: 5

Also they act nice to try to get sex but once they've been denied they show their true colours by acting out and being arseholes.

Ok... I'm totally out of touch with dating. But how is asking for nudes acting "nice"?

They expect nudes or sex after a period of time just for being a pleasant human being

Yeah I understand that. But I don't understand it in this context (this post). What did he do to seem nice or pleasant as compared to a regular guy? Sorry for my ignorance.

Why are there sooooo many of these posts. I mean they're funny to an extent but as a guy who enjoys sex with women and isn't a complete asshole(nobody's perfect) I feel that this misrepresents at least some of the male gender. If you want a genuine "nice guy" to talk to, WHY THE HELL ARE YOU LOOKING FOR HIM ON TINDER? That app is mostly used for hookups. It's not uncommon to find a future BF or husband on there but that is not what regularly happens. The reason these guys act nice at first and then immediately try to seal the deal is because they only turned on the app to get laid asap. Women don't deserve to be talked to and treated any kind of way, but if your on tinder you should at least know what you are getting YOURSELF into.

Exactly. They turned on the app to get *laid,* not to send nudes to some random guy so he can jack off, give them nothing in return, probably call them a slut, and possibly share the pics with god knows who.

In the end, yes Tinder is primarily for getting laid but that doesn't mean it gives anyone (male or female) the right to act like an arsehole. You still want to have sex with a NICE person. Duh. So just because they're using Tinder that doesn't mean anyone should ask for or give nude photographs and it shouldn't be expected.

Why am I being ignored :(

From what it sounds like to me she wasn't even close to giving this guy a pic, so that's probably not an issue. There is always the option of not sending pics to strangers on the internet. If she did and he did do something like share them on the internet, the argument could be made that she is at least somewhat at fault.

As for the fact that "just because she was using Tinder doesn't mean that anyone should ask for or give nude photographs and it shouldn't be expected." They shouldn't true, but you can bet your sweet ass they will. It shouldn't be expected? Have you never heard of Humanity before??? That shit has been going on as long as human civilization. You shouldn't have to expect it, men like this should have been raised better. But saying that it shouldn't be expected, especially on the internet? Where everyone says all the terrible shit that pops into their mind that they are too scared to say in their own lives. That's just bad and unrealistic advice.

zeutay I don't see anywhere on the post about him being nice. Just that they had been talking for a while. He might not have been necessarily nice, just able to hold a conversation for a while.