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dolphinmaster77
· 6 years ago
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Straight up having side chicks or dudes is just sociopathic behaviour
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guest_
· 6 years ago
Basic respect calls for communication. Let your partner(s) know what you honestly want, or if you don’t know tell them that. Don’t promise things you can’t or won’t deliver. It’s not complex. If you both want to be in the same type of relationship you will- and if not you both deserve the right to leave if you choose. You’re either agreeing to be monogamous or you aren’t, everyone is different and we go through phases in life. Just have some respect and BEFORE you step out or BEFORE you start planning to be exclusive talk to them and see where you both are at. If you both don’t see eye to eye you are wasting everyone’s time and disrespecting them and yourself.
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king_me
· 6 years ago
Damn.
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freudiandip
· 6 years ago
Laughing about it feels better than crying about it, I guess.
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king_me
· 6 years ago
Living up to your username
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diyrogue
· 6 years ago
My boyfriend was told by coworkers that he needed to get a side chick because of our long distance relationship. Just because y'all guys can't keep it in your pants doesn't mean y'all gotta be telling other people to ruin their relationships.
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garlog
· 6 years ago
I think, if you look away from social media, you'll find that cheating is almost universally reviled by most people.
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guest_
· 6 years ago
I think you likely hang around well adjusted adults (compliment.) There are social circles where cheating is normalized, or even glamorized. Either as a type of social dominance, display of desirability/ability (to please, provide for, attract, keep multiple partners.) There is also misandry and misogyny where the partner is only seen as a means to fulfill personal need and not a human to respect, as well as the related selfish immaturity, and then related insecurity and need for the validation. There’s also a circle who mostly have exposure to these types of people and as such assume this to be normal behavior in courtship. It’s somewhat a cheating “Cold War” in those cases where each partner assumes the other is guilty unless proven innocent and even then innocence is circumstantial and not a state of being. To them it’s less about the cheating and more about being caught cheating. A game played on the rush of hiding and finding secrets. I think monogomy is the majority though.
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xdmaniac
· 6 years ago
When I started working at the place I work at now I was appalled to hear guys constantly talking about the sexual attractiveness of other women while in a relationship or bragging about cheating on their woman and I was blown away by how common it is and how they genuinely don't seem to understand how fucked it is.
la
· 6 years ago
Doesn't everybody know this tho? Like I know we joke about things like the holocaust and 9/11 and shit but we know about the seriousness of the actual events.
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diyrogue
· 6 years ago
Not where I am. A lot of guys have baby mama's they're with and since the girls ain't giving them sex ( cause they're pregnant ) they get side chicks who will and it's seen as normal
la
· 6 years ago
I know people in real life are like that, it didn't come from nowhere. The tweet says that cheating has been normalised on the internet and I was saying that just because we joke about it doesn't mean that we think it is normal.
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king_me
· 6 years ago
I disagree with you mate. Things like the holocaust and 9/11 were tragedies that affected millions and thousands respectively and resulted in many lives being lost. Since cheating results in none of that, it's not viewed anywhere near as seriously, to the point that people can forget that it is actually wrong/bad. This tweet seems to address the situation in that regard
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