Both are useless cunts. Taking SOs phone and running and hiding to snoop is toxic behavior. Kicking in a door in response is also toxic behavior but in my opinion less so than the former just needs anger help and not being a better human being help.
I think requiring anger help is a bigger issue than this kind of 'being a better human' because sure, respect your partners privacy and all that, but breaking down a door in response is rather excessive. But yeah both suck
It's an excessive response to warranted anger. The kind of controlling behavior behind checking on and snooping on your partner takes a lot more to fix than anger issues and usually is something that they don't want to fix and see as their right which is another problem needing fixing. Scale wise anger is a minor issue.
Fair enough. People with anger issues tend to be dangerous to your physical well-being more so than mental and emotional. Controlling behavious affects you more mentally and emotionally so it depends on whichever you prioritise
If you don't trust your partner enough to the point you'll just go through their phone to make sure, then it's your problem. But, like that notification, if they give you a reason then they either have a good reason ( like a friend messing around ) or they're lying to you, which isn't good.
It really depends on if there's good enough cause for your suspicion.
It really depends on if there's good enough cause for your suspicion.