How are you born that way? How is that people transition sexualities if they're born one way?
One of my best friends is openly gay, and he used to be straight. He had plenty of girlfriends. And then a few years ago he came out saying he liked men instead . It doesn't make sense if they're born that way, but can change sexualities?
I'm sorry, but its a choice. A very personal one, but its something you ultimately decide.
Im pretty sure 99% of gay people have been with the opposite sex before fully proclaiming that theyre gay. Thats a very bold and confident thing to do to lose your virginity during a homosexual act. With todays culture with people like you saying "you must be born straight. Its not a choice you dont HAVE to be gay if you dont want" alot of closeted homosexuals fight off their sexuality in order to try to live the lifestyle they want, one where nobody judges them and accepts them for who they are. This ignorance is what leads to gay suicides and people thinking theyre "broken" or going to hell. How would you know youre gay if youve never been with the opposite sex? Please dont have such strong opinions on a feeling youve never felt before.
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A lot of people masquarade as straight, that doesn't mean they actually are. Your friend probably did think he was straight because that is is norm, it's what people (according to society) are supposed to be. Most people who are in the closet date people of the opposite sex in the hope they will change, or because they don't know any better. Just because your friend was in a relationship with a woman doesn't mean he was physically attracted to her, it just took some time to come to terms with what he was and realize "Hey, I like guys"
The bottom part is sort of true.. After the black people stopped being slaves, the white people had to go outside in the sun. They went from really pale to tan. Soooo, sort of..
You don't choose your orientation. Honestly I wake up every fucking day wishing I was straight. I get bullied non fucking stop. So don't tell me being gay is a choice. Because that's bullshit.
Race (something given at birth that isn't chosen) and sexual orientation (something chosen by an individual) are completely different subjects. Poor analogy
Stop being republican? Seriously? It is so sad to see what this world has come to. No one is allowed to have an opinion anymore unless it matches up to whatever popular culture believes in.
Some people (I'd venture to say MOST) are BORN with a defined sexual orientation and identity. However, there are SOME people who have yet to find who they find fuckable and what they'd like to be. Therefore, when something like this happens, they're just like fuckitimgonnatrytobegay.
Most black people dont identify at all with african culture due to the countries history. Black is fine its not offensive, but simply American works too.
One of my best friends is openly gay, and he used to be straight. He had plenty of girlfriends. And then a few years ago he came out saying he liked men instead . It doesn't make sense if they're born that way, but can change sexualities?
I'm sorry, but its a choice. A very personal one, but its something you ultimately decide.
A lot of people masquarade as straight, that doesn't mean they actually are. Your friend probably did think he was straight because that is is norm, it's what people (according to society) are supposed to be. Most people who are in the closet date people of the opposite sex in the hope they will change, or because they don't know any better. Just because your friend was in a relationship with a woman doesn't mean he was physically attracted to her, it just took some time to come to terms with what he was and realize "Hey, I like guys"