She loves her more than her own son apparently. Maybe this is a passive-agressive way to make him increasingly jealous so that he'll break up without the mom having to actually act on it?
My grandmother divorced her husband when my Dad was just a kid. And I don't call him my grandfather at all because of the things he did to my grandmother and Dad. But how cold hearted and how big of a peice of shit do you have to be where your own Mother would rather spend the rest of her life with your ex-wife than you. That was my Dad's Dad. His own mom spent the rest of her life with my grandmother. She helped raise my Dad and my aunt and later babysit my 2 older brothers and cousin. She even went on vacations with my grandmother to see my grandmother's family. She said to my grandmother that she was more of a daughter than her son was ever a son. She only had one kid and she spent her her last minute of life holding my grandmother's hand.
That is how big of a dick my Dad's dad was.
That is how big of a dick my Dad's dad was.