My mother has been saying she wants me to have a girl already, FIRST OF ALL MOM I’M A BOY SO I DON’T SEE THAT WORKING OUT, TWO I CANNOT CONTROL MY BAG OF CONTENT FOR SPECIFICS, THIRD OF ALL I’M VERY GAY, FOURTH OF ALL I FIND KIDS ANNOYING TO THE POINT OF WANTING TO RUN MY HEAD INTO THE WALL, and my sixth and final point I’M 14
Personally, I don't mind people asking if I have kids, or when I plan to have them. What bothers me is when they act like it's some great personal offense and/or crime against humanity when I tell them I don't have any and don't plan to.
Society absolutely needs a certain amount of social care. Something as simple as encouraging children is a must. People should be allowed to ask friendly questions without sensitive people deciding to be sensitive.
Really? It's not a friendly question! It's nosy and judgemental. Why do you get to ask me what I'm doing with my privates? And for someome who can't have kids but want them, it's incredibly painful and invasive to be asked. We don't need to encourage people to have kids. The world is overpopulated as it is.
People are asking as they are interested in your life and this is a way to show it. If there is no reason to have kids, then just say that you are not considering at the moment. It is like people asking me when i am getting married, or starting a new job. My response is I am working on it, but not at the moment. If people get offended when asked about kids, then they must how up and become social - they probably have a relationship with their phones and cannot have a conversation with people...
I find this question is usually asked by people I barely know, so I doubt they have any genuine interest. Marriage is also nobody's business, and the job thing sounds pretty disapproving of your current job. Also, when
I tell people I don't want children, they feel the need to tell me I'm making a horrible mistake or I'll change my mind when I'm older (lol, I'm 32!)
I'm not having babies for you,sharon, damn mind yo own business,
I tell people I don't want children, they feel the need to tell me I'm making a horrible mistake or I'll change my mind when I'm older (lol, I'm 32!)