There are a million reasons why someone is online/appears to be active, but didnt respond to your mssg. Maybe they only have time to scroll while in line somewhere, say McDonalds, and dont want to be too distracted ie write a response to your post. Maybe they are free but are taking a moment to think about a good response to your mssg and are surfing social media at the same time. I guarantee you, things you might think are personal sleights are prob not. Give your friends some benefit of the doubt.
I never really worry about if people don’t text back. Cause I’ll call them over an over an over x infinity to piss them off an make them answer my mofo call. Then I’ll state my mind about what I need to say. An then go back to my day like normal.
Pulse if they not answering you an ya see them on line an ya know for sure they are not just idling online, then drop them. It’s hard but they clearly made a decision to ignore you so drop them an find someone else that’s just as messed up as you. Then y’all can terrorize the fucker who ignored you. Just a little thought. You do you.
You do you but yet you are so pressed that someone didn’t reply to you. If they don’t reply to you it could be a number of reasons as to why. What you should do is not worry about it and go about your day. What you just did by bothering them to the point that they do respond to you shows that it really does annoy you they didn’t respond. Plus now you gave them a legitimate reason as to why they don’t want anything to do with you. No one is obligated to reply or message you. You aren’t their boyfriend / girlfriend or family member . So chill.
Pulse if they not answering you an ya see them on line an ya know for sure they are not just idling online, then drop them. It’s hard but they clearly made a decision to ignore you so drop them an find someone else that’s just as messed up as you. Then y’all can terrorize the fucker who ignored you. Just a little thought. You do you.