I can wear your clothes without stretching them out but you can't wear mine without ruining them, that's definitely not the same thing. That being said, if your partner asks you not to wear their clothes, don't be an ass and wear them any way. Though, I will say, if I let your dick in my body, what is the big deal about my boobs being in your tshirt?
Maybe bc the preson wants to wear that shirt/pants
But now they can't, cause you're wearing them.
And some (lots of) people don't want their private stuffs being touched, especially without their permission.
it's called politeness and boundaries. Doesn't matter how close you are, be polite and don't use people's stuffs without asking first.
Like I said, if they ask not to, don't. But seriously, if you have such an issue with someone wearing your shirt, you shouldn't be in a relationship, you need to be working on you. Now, I'm not taking about a casual relationship, I'm assuming if you are at the clothing sharing stage you are living together. And if you can't handle having the person you are living with romantically wearing your shirt, you are not in the head space to be sharing a life together. Its as simple as that. The only time I wore my exs clothes was when I was pregnant and girls clothes sucked. If he'd had a problem with me borrowing his shirts, sure, I would have stopped, but he didn't complain, because he was a grown ass adult in a committed relationship. Seriously. If clothing sharing is a big issue, or really ANY issue in your relationship, just call it now, save everyone some time.
Boundaries
Even my parents don't touch my stuffs without telling me first.
The "your things mean our things" is ridiculous. Everyone has their private things that they don't want others touch. And with me, if they don't have the politeness to ask first, they shouldn't touch my anything.
What's it so hard about opening your mouth and ask for permission?
But now they can't, cause you're wearing them.
And some (lots of) people don't want their private stuffs being touched, especially without their permission.
it's called politeness and boundaries. Doesn't matter how close you are, be polite and don't use people's stuffs without asking first.
Even my parents don't touch my stuffs without telling me first.
The "your things mean our things" is ridiculous. Everyone has their private things that they don't want others touch. And with me, if they don't have the politeness to ask first, they shouldn't touch my anything.
What's it so hard about opening your mouth and ask for permission?