This was really fun.
But on the side I fucking hate surprises like surprise parties.
It is like everyone says you know what be super funny? Let's make this person feel like shit and feel like no one really cares at all about them and than scream at them and make thier party all about laughing at them for feeling like no one cared.
My mom and family thought it be such a great idea to throw me a surprise baby shower by telling me the that they will don't care about my baby or me.
See I told my mom that since I had to get married out of state with my husband's family I wanted a little family get together to celebrate my daughter with my family. I told her I don't want gifts I don't want anything just them to show up and eat and be together. I was going to do all the food and pay for everything. I gave her 3 months in advance she told me she refused to get the day off I said I would would switch to a day she is off. Still no. She told me I was wrong to even suggest the party.
I ended up yelling saying I don't want a thing from anyone I just wanted to do something with my family and they can't even do that.
I ended up going into a deep depression over it with major stress I ended up in the hospital due to it. They told me I couldn't leave till I was much calmer. I stayed for 2 days. I didn't tell her that she put me in the hospital.
Month later she called telling me how she needed to go to the doctor out of town and wanted me to go. I told her no but for a week stright she kept begging me to go. Finally I said I would go just to get her to stop.
Turned out s threw me a baby shower.
I was so anger I wanted to leave. But I couldn't because I can't drive. So I put on a lie of a smile and sat through it till my husband came and got me an hour later.
It was years later when I found out my cousin knew my nurse in the hospital and she told my cousin who told my mom I was in the hospital. She did it only because she felt bad.
So I fucking hate surprise parties
In my life there is only two things my mom did that made me hate her and make it hard to let go of and this one of them the other I rather not say right now.
My Dad even has 2 things that made me hate him.
Only adults I don't have any hate at all for is my grandparents.
But even though I have some reasons to hate my Mom and Dad I love them more than anything I already lost my Dad and now my Mom has type 2 cancer. I just try to remember the good but it is the bad that reminds me they are just human.
But on the side I fucking hate surprises like surprise parties.
It is like everyone says you know what be super funny? Let's make this person feel like shit and feel like no one really cares at all about them and than scream at them and make thier party all about laughing at them for feeling like no one cared.
My mom and family thought it be such a great idea to throw me a surprise baby shower by telling me the that they will don't care about my baby or me.
See I told my mom that since I had to get married out of state with my husband's family I wanted a little family get together to celebrate my daughter with my family. I told her I don't want gifts I don't want anything just them to show up and eat and be together. I was going to do all the food and pay for everything. I gave her 3 months in advance she told me she refused to get the day off I said I would would switch to a day she is off. Still no. She told me I was wrong to even suggest the party.
I ended up going into a deep depression over it with major stress I ended up in the hospital due to it. They told me I couldn't leave till I was much calmer. I stayed for 2 days. I didn't tell her that she put me in the hospital.
Month later she called telling me how she needed to go to the doctor out of town and wanted me to go. I told her no but for a week stright she kept begging me to go. Finally I said I would go just to get her to stop.
Turned out s threw me a baby shower.
I was so anger I wanted to leave. But I couldn't because I can't drive. So I put on a lie of a smile and sat through it till my husband came and got me an hour later.
It was years later when I found out my cousin knew my nurse in the hospital and she told my cousin who told my mom I was in the hospital. She did it only because she felt bad.
So I fucking hate surprise parties
My Dad even has 2 things that made me hate him.
Only adults I don't have any hate at all for is my grandparents.
But even though I have some reasons to hate my Mom and Dad I love them more than anything I already lost my Dad and now my Mom has type 2 cancer. I just try to remember the good but it is the bad that reminds me they are just human.