dating /is/ hard for women. you never know which of those five thousand are creeps, emotionally unstable, clingy, rapists or plain ol' axe murderers. just the process of weeding out idiots takes fucking ages, not to mention it's really far from foolproof. still, you have to do it and hurry, perhaps settle for lesser things in the process because the clock is ticking and your eggs are dying. meanwhile men your age enjoy the nice life of making up an unrealistic ideal woman, writing moaning posts on social media about being friendzoned and having casual, free-from-crippling-fear-of-getting-pregnant sex.
eventually women settle with the slightly older and slightly fatter kinda okay guy who at the very least isn't a serial murderer, have babies and start sprouting regrets.
men, on the other side, have by now probably somehow built a career, the stupid ones took longer but by the time they're 45, they're prolly doing okay so they marry the hot young 20-something and start reproducing.
did i forget to mention how men hit the second puberty once they get in their 50s ? they do. affairs, shopping sprees and gambling addictions ensue. not to worry tho, their previously hot young wife is now a middle-aged woman with 3 children and acute awareness she's got two choices: divorce the lunatic and remain alone forever or endure. a rather obvious choice, especially if said woman is financially and in-other-ways dependant on her darling hubby... who is now shagging the secretary but, well, everyone makes mistakes and divorce would mean you end up like sarah down the street who left her husband and now has to live in a shitty apppartment, makes a minimal wage and throws out garbage bags that clink a lot.
Because men have it so much easier right? You never know which out of the 5481 girls who swiped left on you did it because they were money-grubbing, gold-digging whores, and which ones just did it because they're whores who want men who will treat them badly, so that when they finally end up with you, the decent guy who treats them well, they don't know how to respond and instead disrespect and cheat on you. All the while, you're unwilling to change your decent, well-adjusted behaviour because of one stupid crazy bitch, but stuck wondering why you're such a decent, good dude when you could just be an emotionally-unavailable dick and sleep with a bunch of fucked up young hoes with no self-esteem and emotional insecurities
And don't forget. When your useless middle-aged wife who's lived off you all these years, is old, boring, a fucking psychotic nag, who literally has nothing left to offer and brings nothing to the table, it'll be you, the male, who's the bad guy for getting bored of her and seeking thrills elsewhere.
And all of this because this stupid hoe 'settled' for you in her mind, when she had so very little to offer in the first place, but had the balls to believe she was "a catch". You, who genuinely loved her for who she was is now shocked that she thinks YOU'RE the lunatic, because of course women as an entire fucking gender have this long-standing reputation for being oh-so sane and logical. And to top it all of, not only is she 50, unattractive and ungrateful, she did you the glorious favour of 'settling' for you years ago, "sprouted regrets" after 'settling' for you, and somehow magically, all of this is your fault.
This is some academic grade logic you've got going on here. But how dare any of us forget, women are victims, and men are always at fault.
Your fucked up logic is literally this: If the male isn't perfectly fit, wealthy, supportive, and then spontaneously and organically grateful for the gold-digging bitch who's kind enough to 'settle for him', well how dare the man chain a useless woman to him and support her all his life. And how dare the regular man get bored after 30 years.. god forbid the presence of this great goddess isn't enough itself to make the man happy. And after 30 years of supporting the self-righteous cunt, if the man should dare want some kind of entertainment.. well, men really are all the same selfish bastards aren't they. Thank goodness for women, the blessings that they are!
Nah fuck that, I ain't got problems. I'm the first guest who wrote the 3 essays to the self-entitled bitch. I just can't stand her whiny double-standard fake-feminist bullshit. I'm a normal, well-adjusted human being. She and the other psychos like her have problems.
both genders have double standards, i know it, confirmed :D
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still, dear guest, please chill the fuck out a bit with all the name-calling and stuff. you are decidedly NOT giving off the most "normal, well adjusted human being" vibe. kinda proving my point there with this insane-level freakout. i said a woman never knows when a seemingly normal looking man might go off like a greade and ... here you are. going off like a grenade.
also: you forgot to counter my brilliant peasant-grade logic about the biological differences between the sexes and how that affects the whole 'setting for the kinda-okay' guy, which inevitably leads to marital/family issues.
men are biologically awarded a lot more freedom when it comes to choosing a partner and men have used and abused this advantage. this is not "some feminist bullshit". it's a fact. it doesn't change just because you called me a bitch and other choice titles a couple times.
Sorry, as a guest I don't get notified, so I have to manually check to come back and suppress more of your bullshit.
As for going off like a grenade, I'm not apologizing, just explaining that as a sex the majority of us are violently allergic to such a large dosage of bullshit. Hence the violence of my earliest responses, and the oncoming violence of my next responses. You can call it an "insane-level freakout", but since I'm probably right in assuming you've never dated a woman, you're not as adept in dealing with it. Trust me, we get it all the time, and us grown-up mature men have plenty of experience dealing with it. I know you probably can't say the same. Lucky you right? Another one of those darned double-standards! As for the name-calling, feel free to take responsibility yourself. You brought that on, and deserve it.
As for your bullshit, projectional peasant-grade logic, short of rape, which we all know has been a significant theme in human evolution, and something I don't condone "Men having more freedom in choosing a partner" is just another BS excuse you want to put the blame on. Men don't get to any more freedom with women. Women CHOOSE their partners, men only proposition them. Hence the rising theme in our generation about "women should ask first". Another glorious double-standard. In the original meme above, it was the girl with 5400 matches, but fuck logic right? If a man is promiscuous and disrespectful to women, he may well be a filthy liar, but if a woman sleeps with him, that was HER CHOICE - again, excluding rape in this example.
So I guess you're right. Men are awarded the "freedom" to be enterprising, and creative and spend their time and their money to TRY and court a woman and get her to go out with him. If she agrees, he'll think of, organize, drive the date and pay...
for everything. If he's lucky, the female will deign to see him again, and maybe even sleep with him. The one shortcut to this process being rape; the other one being if the woman inherently has insecurities or confidence issues or is herself "maladjusted".. but of course, that's the man's fault, how could I forget?
So, perhaps you're not used to meeting or recognizing someone well-adjusted, but I am. I'm in a healthy, loving relationship with a younger girl who's most;y dependent on me, but as a healthy young male, thats never something I remind her of her hold over my head. Know why? Because, just by being the normal healthy person she is, she deserves my love, and shows me why every day. Likewise, I continue to honour her trust and affection.
You're too fucked up to deserve that. Clearly. Go get your head fixed, before you expect anyone here to take you seriously or tolerate your psychosis
Feel free to point out what I’ve done that’s immature.
As for her being mostly dependent on me, that’s the way the cards have fallen? Trust me, it’s not me maintaining that, or anything for that matter. It doesn’t benefit me in anyway that she’s ‘mostly dependent’ on me. Do you have a suggestion to make the situation more “healthy” or are you just calling me out for telling the truth?
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Wow... *slowly claps*
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The very angry guest made some valid points. @lindsmolinari did you have a counter to his argument? If so, I would like to hear it.
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*Grabs Popcorn*
eventually women settle with the slightly older and slightly fatter kinda okay guy who at the very least isn't a serial murderer, have babies and start sprouting regrets.
men, on the other side, have by now probably somehow built a career, the stupid ones took longer but by the time they're 45, they're prolly doing okay so they marry the hot young 20-something and start reproducing.
And all of this because this stupid hoe 'settled' for you in her mind, when she had so very little to offer in the first place, but had the balls to believe she was "a catch". You, who genuinely loved her for who she was is now shocked that she thinks YOU'RE the lunatic, because of course women as an entire fucking gender have this long-standing reputation for being oh-so sane and logical. And to top it all of, not only is she 50, unattractive and ungrateful, she did you the glorious favour of 'settling' for you years ago, "sprouted regrets" after 'settling' for you, and somehow magically, all of this is your fault.
Your fucked up logic is literally this: If the male isn't perfectly fit, wealthy, supportive, and then spontaneously and organically grateful for the gold-digging bitch who's kind enough to 'settle for him', well how dare the man chain a useless woman to him and support her all his life. And how dare the regular man get bored after 30 years.. god forbid the presence of this great goddess isn't enough itself to make the man happy. And after 30 years of supporting the self-righteous cunt, if the man should dare want some kind of entertainment.. well, men really are all the same selfish bastards aren't they. Thank goodness for women, the blessings that they are!
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still, dear guest, please chill the fuck out a bit with all the name-calling and stuff. you are decidedly NOT giving off the most "normal, well adjusted human being" vibe. kinda proving my point there with this insane-level freakout. i said a woman never knows when a seemingly normal looking man might go off like a greade and ... here you are. going off like a grenade.
also: you forgot to counter my brilliant peasant-grade logic about the biological differences between the sexes and how that affects the whole 'setting for the kinda-okay' guy, which inevitably leads to marital/family issues.
men are biologically awarded a lot more freedom when it comes to choosing a partner and men have used and abused this advantage. this is not "some feminist bullshit". it's a fact. it doesn't change just because you called me a bitch and other choice titles a couple times.
ta!
As for going off like a grenade, I'm not apologizing, just explaining that as a sex the majority of us are violently allergic to such a large dosage of bullshit. Hence the violence of my earliest responses, and the oncoming violence of my next responses. You can call it an "insane-level freakout", but since I'm probably right in assuming you've never dated a woman, you're not as adept in dealing with it. Trust me, we get it all the time, and us grown-up mature men have plenty of experience dealing with it. I know you probably can't say the same. Lucky you right? Another one of those darned double-standards! As for the name-calling, feel free to take responsibility yourself. You brought that on, and deserve it.
So I guess you're right. Men are awarded the "freedom" to be enterprising, and creative and spend their time and their money to TRY and court a woman and get her to go out with him. If she agrees, he'll think of, organize, drive the date and pay...
So, perhaps you're not used to meeting or recognizing someone well-adjusted, but I am. I'm in a healthy, loving relationship with a younger girl who's most;y dependent on me, but as a healthy young male, thats never something I remind her of her hold over my head. Know why? Because, just by being the normal healthy person she is, she deserves my love, and shows me why every day. Likewise, I continue to honour her trust and affection.
You're too fucked up to deserve that. Clearly. Go get your head fixed, before you expect anyone here to take you seriously or tolerate your psychosis
As for her being mostly dependent on me, that’s the way the cards have fallen? Trust me, it’s not me maintaining that, or anything for that matter. It doesn’t benefit me in anyway that she’s ‘mostly dependent’ on me. Do you have a suggestion to make the situation more “healthy” or are you just calling me out for telling the truth?
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The very angry guest made some valid points. @lindsmolinari did you have a counter to his argument? If so, I would like to hear it.
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*Grabs Popcorn*