My husband's sister was in a mentally and physically abusive marriage. He would not only be abusive to her but to her daughter of another marriage he would constantly tell his kids to hit her or call her names. Or he would yell at her or call her names. As for his kids they shared if he wasn't telling them to abuse their sister or overly dissplining them he ignored them.
So multiple time we tried to get her to leave. She left on her own 3 times. The last time I took it into my own to make DAMN SURE she never go back.
She ALWAYS had a crush on her first marriage daughter's Great Uncle. This is her ex-husband's uncle. He is 45 she is 36. So I lied my ass off about how he seems to be flirting with her and I even lied saying he asked me about her marriage statues. I lied so much that she believed it. She got a job got a divorce and moved her kids into the near by school. Her kids were happy again.
Her daughter did ask me in private to stop trying to hook her uncle and mom up because she thought it was gross.
I explained to her that the only way to get her away from her stepdad is to get her to like someone else.
Than I told her the truth he doesnt even like her mom that way. It was all a lie and I need her help to get her to leave her husband.
She was 14 so she understood and agreed. Still thought it was gross but helped.
See my sister in-law is for lack of a better word a slut. She thinks of no one but her and her having sex. She would talk to her 14 year old daughter about how if she ever wants to keep a man. She should take it up the ass.
This girl was rapped as a child and her mom talks to her about sex as if she is an adult.
If we could take the kids from her we would.
Off topic sorry but yeah that's is what I had to do to get someone to leave a guy
Anyone else if they are not in a physical or mentally abuse relationship you should just say your opinion and that is it.
She can shout 'til she's blue in the face. Love is love. Either she'll move on when the time is right or she won't. It's not something that can be forced, at least not by someone stood outside looking in.
So multiple time we tried to get her to leave. She left on her own 3 times. The last time I took it into my own to make DAMN SURE she never go back.
She ALWAYS had a crush on her first marriage daughter's Great Uncle. This is her ex-husband's uncle. He is 45 she is 36. So I lied my ass off about how he seems to be flirting with her and I even lied saying he asked me about her marriage statues. I lied so much that she believed it. She got a job got a divorce and moved her kids into the near by school. Her kids were happy again.
I explained to her that the only way to get her away from her stepdad is to get her to like someone else.
Than I told her the truth he doesnt even like her mom that way. It was all a lie and I need her help to get her to leave her husband.
She was 14 so she understood and agreed. Still thought it was gross but helped.
See my sister in-law is for lack of a better word a slut. She thinks of no one but her and her having sex. She would talk to her 14 year old daughter about how if she ever wants to keep a man. She should take it up the ass.
This girl was rapped as a child and her mom talks to her about sex as if she is an adult.
If we could take the kids from her we would.
Off topic sorry but yeah that's is what I had to do to get someone to leave a guy
Anyone else if they are not in a physical or mentally abuse relationship you should just say your opinion and that is it.