Virgin used to mean something good but now it's like a death sentence.
When I was in school if a girl was a virgin she was a tease if she had sex she was a slut.
If a guy was a virgin he was a loser if he had sex he was cool to guys while girls called him a jerk or heart breaker.
I don't think you should wait till your married to have sex. I think you should wait till you are out of school and not living with Mom and Dad.
That way GOD FORBID you get someone or you get pregnant without trying to than you are a grown up and not some kid trying to pass science. You will be old enough to handle your life and this new life coming. The baby won't be destroying your life just make bills tighter.
This is what I told my daughter and how I did it.
I waited till I lived somewhere else and was 19 and out of school.
And not because no one offered trust me I had PLENTY of chances but I never took them.
Condoms have 2% chance not to work.
Non latex condoms has 18% of failing.
Did has 8% - 4% chance to fail.
The pill has 1% - 9% chance to fail.
Contraceptive injection goes from 1% to 4% depending on how many times you take it. It gets worse as you go.
Look everything has a risk of one getting by.
DON'T GET ME STARTED ON IUD BY THE WAY!!!
My mom has her uterus FALLING OUT OF HER BODY BECAUSE SOME BASTARD SAW SHE HAD 6 FUCKING KIDS AND PUT ONE IN WITH OUT TELLING HER!!! It was in her for 27 YEARS!
We think her cancer is because her body began to shut down due to that thing.
So I urge EVERYONE NEVER GET AN IUD!!!!
Sorry just very sore subject about birth control.
It may be the thing that takes her away. We already lost Dad.
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Look what I am trying to say is this in life there is no sure bet to block not only a baby but a STD. But the safest you can get to not having to deal with it as a kid is to wait till you are grown up enough to fully take care of any problems it may bring if they occour.
You can use double protection, and condoms do a pretty good job with std. If everything fails there's also abortion (i know it's not for everybody)
You were lucky you were independent by 19, were i live the econimic crisis and shitty jobs are raising that age by a lot, even by 30.
It's good to raise responsible people, but people have sex, it's a thing that happens, it's better if they know how to prevent problems
I'm sorry you had bad experiences, your mothers doctor was an absolut piece of shit
Virginity is a really good thing. Sex with one person is infinitely better and more fun than doing it with multiple people and then not feeling as special when you get married.
When I was in school if a girl was a virgin she was a tease if she had sex she was a slut.
If a guy was a virgin he was a loser if he had sex he was cool to guys while girls called him a jerk or heart breaker.
I don't think you should wait till your married to have sex. I think you should wait till you are out of school and not living with Mom and Dad.
That way GOD FORBID you get someone or you get pregnant without trying to than you are a grown up and not some kid trying to pass science. You will be old enough to handle your life and this new life coming. The baby won't be destroying your life just make bills tighter.
This is what I told my daughter and how I did it.
I waited till I lived somewhere else and was 19 and out of school.
And not because no one offered trust me I had PLENTY of chances but I never took them.
Non latex condoms has 18% of failing.
Did has 8% - 4% chance to fail.
The pill has 1% - 9% chance to fail.
Contraceptive injection goes from 1% to 4% depending on how many times you take it. It gets worse as you go.
Look everything has a risk of one getting by.
DON'T GET ME STARTED ON IUD BY THE WAY!!!
My mom has her uterus FALLING OUT OF HER BODY BECAUSE SOME BASTARD SAW SHE HAD 6 FUCKING KIDS AND PUT ONE IN WITH OUT TELLING HER!!! It was in her for 27 YEARS!
We think her cancer is because her body began to shut down due to that thing.
So I urge EVERYONE NEVER GET AN IUD!!!!
It may be the thing that takes her away. We already lost Dad.
.
.
Look what I am trying to say is this in life there is no sure bet to block not only a baby but a STD. But the safest you can get to not having to deal with it as a kid is to wait till you are grown up enough to fully take care of any problems it may bring if they occour.
You were lucky you were independent by 19, were i live the econimic crisis and shitty jobs are raising that age by a lot, even by 30.
It's good to raise responsible people, but people have sex, it's a thing that happens, it's better if they know how to prevent problems
I'm sorry you had bad experiences, your mothers doctor was an absolut piece of shit